Love

love is the best thing ever.

Before my husband & I got married we went through long distance relationship...He was away for work abroad and I was left behind...at first, it was truly difficult, to think that we've been together for so many yrs as in really together everyday then one time he left for work overseas & that I needed myself to stand on my own since I got used to the set up that we were together all the time. I was raised under his shadow that when he left I was like an invalid person, but constant writing letters and conversations over the phone made our relationship even more strong. Now, we are 17 years together, 10 yrs as lovers and 7 years as married. Sometimes, when you have so much love in your heart you can make the impossible possible...as the song says "Love moves in a mysterious ways"...

I don't have any trust on long distant relationship. Sorry to say that. You are faltering, maybe, your bf is also. You really wouldn't know if there's anyone there at that other place, just like here at your place, somebody appeared. I would say let nature takes its course. You didn't go and initiate(usually the males will) so I would say simply accept as a friend, don't jump into a relation but there isn't any need to not accept friendship. You are suppose to carry on living life. As for relationship, it's more important to see clearly the character of the other party. You don't jump into relationship just because you are lonely, that's looking to get hurt, totally unwise. Use your time to improve yourself, do things that interest you(hobby), and start caring for your family(after marriage you'll have less oppotunity to return the love and care of your parents and family). Doing the above will help eliminate loneliness.

You and your boyfriend need to sit together and have a serious discussion about this issue. Is there anything that both of you can do so you and him can stay closer together? Are you willing to move to where he is or otherwise? If the situation is only temporary, you have to be patient and stay loyal to each other until you both be reunited again. If your relationship is to remain like that for a long time, then sorry to say it won't work out for both of you. Good luck.