When can you say you are OVER with someone?

Sometimes you never get over the other person. You may go on with your life but you can count on unwanted memories of them that just pop up in your head and the unanswered questions that you have about how did things get bad and self regret. You just have to keep yourself busy to try and sway your mind away from them. have a nice day

Prime, it is not always easy to accept that a love is over. It can hurt real bad and i don't think ayone will really admit that the pain stays with you. But, to move on and find another is always something people are scared off. They don't want to be the one who has to heal and take away that pain.

I knew i was over my ex when the time without him was better then when i was with him.

Hi, Yes, every beginning must have an end, but we often say this because we are more inclined in clinging to most impermanent and fragile things. There are a few things that doesn't end at all. But lets not draw that into this discussion. I am directly addressing your question here. When seeing her, hearing about her doesn't change your mood at all, when you hardly remember the details of the relationship you had with her, it means that you are over with her. When you are over with her, you will be indifferent to her matters. When you find it difficult to remember in detail exactly how she looked, you know for certain that you are over with her. When you don't blame yourself for all that happened, nor blame her for anything, you are over. When you are over, you just forget to remember her. Thanks God bless you

The pattern I go through during heartbreak is usually in extreme. I go really really down. I stay home for weeks. Stay in my room. I keep away from the light. I exhaust myself and after I drained myself up for thinking why it all ended... I starting pampering myself. Give myself a good bath.. eat out, sleep more then I start going out. During that phase, memories about the relationship still haunts me. I just let it be. Till one day I just realize that I have not been thinking about the person for days already. When I am able to talk and walk the same way I was before I met her then I can tell that I am over. And it doesn't matter anymore if I see her somewhere. It's done deal once the phase of acceptance is over.

a friend of mine once told me, "you're only over with someone when you found another one" i dont know if thats true, but maybe it is in a way for some. i think getting over someone takes quite some time, and is not forced. i always had this experience when i can't seem to get over an ex, then one day i just realized i havent been thinking of that person for some time now. oh i also learned something, the 21-day rule. maybe this will help too... cry, be sad, be in denial, be angry, miss the person, etc etc. but only for 21 days. then after, just move on. makes sense though, since it gives the person time to feel all those emotions and after feeling them, there is no other thing left but to move on.

knew i was over my ex when it didn't hurt to hear his name. It took some time but I did get over him. And I did it Without being bitter . My heart remained open so I was ready when I met my guy. He is the one I know I won't get over.

Hello Prime. When I was 16, I fell in love with the first man in my life. Our relationship lasted for three years and little did he know, he'd been breaking my heart within that course of three years. When I graduated from college and I had my first job, I took that as an opportunity to divert my attention to. I broke up with him because I know that even if I was so inlove with him, he'd never be the right one and the good one for me. I let my heart heal for two to three years and I really go so astray. I met new people, entered relationships and had my heart broken several times. But nothing compared to my heartbreak with him. However, I realized that getting my ego hurt feels worse than a heartbreak. With all the things I've been through, I let myself learn and heal. Now I'm proud to say that I'm a mature person and have learned to discern people better and their intentions. I'm glad that I am over him and you know how I proved it? Because I don't feel any remorse, anger or anything about him anymore. All I want for him now is peace of mind, happiness and good health. He's now married with two kids and I'm now with my new boyfriend who, for me, the best guy I've met. We have different lives now but I can say that knowing my first love has been a good memory after all. I hope you get to heal soon but my advice is to take it slow, learn from it and move on slowly.

i can say i'm really over an ex when i stop crying.

frankly if a is the former someone you are trying to get over with and you are currently with b then it is plain coping that could make you appear to have have forgotten about her. if, however you are with c already then 90% sure it is just plain memories that you have of a and is over her already. but am pretty sure you are still wondering what could've been with b, right? ergo: we, decently, cannot get over someone. but we can cope. and most importantly we can accept that it's over and done with.

dear prime, no matter now much you would want the pain to leave you, you will experience the phases and time is your enemy depending on how much you want to heal yourself. and will only feel that you are over and that you have healed faster when someone mends your heart. cheers, ann

When I was in relationships in the past, I knew that the relationship was over when I could look at the person that I'd been in the relationship with in the past and no longer feel anything. I didn't feel love and I didn't feel hate. I really did feel nothing at all. When I realized that I felt that way, I knew that there was nothing left in a relationship for me and I was ready to move on in my life, away from my relationship.

If you can mention his/her name without that awkward feeling and you're able to joke about you're past relationship with that person without bitterness, then you're over with that someone.

I think that we can say that is over when we are really able to say that looking to the eyes of that person we are breaking out... specially if that person is with another person now.... but what I say is harder than it sounds

This is a question that each person has to answer for themselves. I can share with you how I would know when I am over someone, and this may be how you would know, or may not be... I would know when I am over someone when I can think of them and feel no emotionals ties whatsoever. I would have lost the feeling that I need them and I would have lost any feeling of anger towards them. It simply would no matter. I could see them on the street and be 100% OK about it, be able to talk with them, and then walk on without giving them any more thought. Detachment is what would have occurred and this always develops at its own rate. Faster with some people and slower with others. Good luck.. _Derek

It is not an easy situation. It is very difficult for a person to make his mind that everything is over with that person. But, most of the cases, there will be a small line of hope at least for some time. It depends on if you are the person who want to end the relationship or the person who is forced to end the relationship and still has a soft feeling. On the point of a person who first decide to put an end to a relationship, she will think a lot and all the possible results, chances, amd consequences of continuing the relationship and finally decide to put an end to the relationship.

hi prime, A person can say that he is over with someone in a relationship when he himself had accepted and realized that no matter how he wanted to fight for the sake of love and relationship, it will always lead to nothing or not be working good for many times, and be leaving many unwanted circumstances that only leaves bad memories for both, I guess this is the time to accept and say that you are already over with someone. When you have accepted it freely in your heart despite of the mixed emotions you have. You are already over when there is the feeling of accepting the reality, that both of you are in separate lives again. That, even you give more space for chances, never will it works the same as you were before or expected before.. That this changes in your lives, is a new phase to prove to each other what both of you can be individually. And, show what kind of life you wanted to be.. Any remorse after the said break up, will heal in time.. and if chances be replaced by a new partner much better than before... Though, in every relationship, there is always this missing piece we always search for our partner.. Until, you have found that missing piece in form of another person, then, confidently you can say " I am over with my past someone or love". That, after your heart was healed in time, even your paths had crossed again, there will be no heart ache pains..but gladness that, after your life with that past, that own freedom lead you to a better life..And, because of that end, it lead you to a new beginning of life, a new hop and inspiration to move on.. We cannot change the past things that had happened, they are part in our life to make us strong and better person, but we can change our life in the present only if we desired it for good..Our choices lead us to what kind of life we wanted to have and what we want to foresee in the future Happy mylotting

I can never say I am totally over with somebody.I usually try to do it but no matter how hurt I am I am that kind of person that forgives easy.I know I shouldn't be like that because sometimes when people know it they take advantage of me but I cannot be angry at somebody all my life.

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