trust-friendship or love?
By mokkka
@mokkka (881)
Bulgaria
May 3, 2010 4:23pm CST
Do you think two people may fully trust each other whan they are lovers or their relation can be stronger only if they are simple frinds.I have heard of many broken friendships and many separated love couples so I am not sure what to think.Sometimes I need to choose between going out with my friends or my boyfrind and I am afraid I may disappoint somebody.What about you?
5 responses
@rhinarea (311)
•
16 May 10
For me i don't have to choose between going out with friends or my boyfriend, understanding what it means to rely on someone like friends is important and determining if your partner is trustworthy and vise versa. This is the most important factor in the bond that you have together.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
4 May 10
The long lasting relationships we can have begin as simple friendships. Sometimes relationships that begin romantically turn out badly because the romance foes not last. if you start as a friend, you can grow into the romance. The relationship can only continue and grow there on.
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@dacaisha (10)
• China
4 May 10
We have to accept the truth that it is hard for us,including me, to get a balance between our lovers and our friends. Taking my experience as an example, I am a boy who is so crazy about sports that I always do some sports with my friends, which I really enjoy. Everything is not going to confliction until I fall in love with my girlfriend. I have to make a choice between my lover and my friends. Frankly speaking, it is really a torture. At the last, I choose to spend most of my time with my girlfriend with the result that I have less contact with my friends, undoubtedly.
Presently, I found that isolating from my friends is not my style and I shared my thoughts with my girlfriend. Fortunately, my girlfriend totally understand my situation , support me to play with my friends again and, what is the better, she always go to the court when we paly the basketball. Now, she immerses the happy the sports gives to us and we love each other more deeply at the same time
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@LillyBelleDaisyRose (285)
• United States
4 May 10
First off,,, screw who you disappoint..Do what is best fro YOU.. but personally I think that you can fully trust your love always.. My husband has stood by my side through more than even my family..and I don't even have to have freinds because I ahve him..the best part is HE IS MY BESTFRIEND.. and when you have a true friend and the one you love wrapped together then things can't get any better
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@kedralynn (980)
• United States
3 May 10
I fully trust my boyfriend and he fully trusts me. He likes it when I go out with my friends. He doesn't want me to have to choose one or the other. He'd like me to have friends and him. And I want him to be able to have his friends too. We communicate a lot which helps. I never have to worry about who he's with or what he's doing because he always tells me. I've also met his friends and he's met mine. So we can all go out together with our friends and have fun. Communication and trust is important when trying to balance friends and lovers.
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