Reality or Fantasy?

If you think you are comfortable enough, so why still think for a right one? In some instances that a person might think of another one, maybe she/he is not happy or contented. For me, I won't be longing for another one if i am already happy with someone i am with. It would lead me into a miserable life. and I would never stay with someone whom I am not happy and comfortable.

To have in your mind a right one, a perfect partner is the biggest mistake that you can make, having this prejudice in your mind will not let you see the real person beside you. I think a relation should be allowed to grow without interference and prejudgment. After a wile both partner will see if they are fitted or they have irreconcilable differences between them. Normally a relation is based on reciprocal understanding and in 99% of the time each partner has to make small changes to fit with the other one. We are real persons not pieces of a jigsaw puzzle to fit perfectly together.

hi mercedlegurpa You do make perfect sense since we cannot remake other people but we can change ourselves and our viewpoints on any thing. Yes do be happy with the boyfriend or girlfriend you have as being comfortable with that person usually means you really love that person. Even the most handsome man or woman is not perfect and many times they have more faults than the ordinary okay looking guy or girl.

I believe that a fantasy can possibly be a reality if a person knows what are the difference of both and how to use them in real life but can never be a reality be turned into fantasy. I would rather go for the reality. I will stay with my partner in reality and if I have some fantasies regarding a relationship, then I will tell him freely my insights about it. I believe that a right partner can be someone that is in reality. He can be someone as long we have a good relationship together which I am worthy to have even not my fantasy guy. Life is boring if you stick only in fantasy. But, in reality, life is more challenging. If people will live for fantasy than reality, then I guess no one will be suffering from heart ache pains, depressions and emotional distress because they can easily find the fantasy they wanted. Reality is still best preferred. Happy mylotting..

I would realistic and would just make the best of it. I don't believe in The Right Girl, I just believe that in every relationship, you are the one that really makes things matter. Besides, imperfection makes is the thing that makes everybody interesting, perfect means boring

hi mercedlegurpa You do make perfect sense since we cannot remake other people but we can change ourselves and our viewpoints on any thing. Good day all!

Let's not be hypocrites here. Of course when someone better comes along, we want that person at the back of our minds eventhough we're with someone else. We just act coy and find a reason to not like that someone for our current partner's sake. So, naturally, we wait for someone better. I know i would be.

Well..I always waiting for a right guy even though my boyfriend is quite perfect actually. I don't know. In my mind, I always think that there will be a better person than him but in reality ..only God knows. I think I should accept him the way he is because he always accept me the way I am and always be patient whenever I got angry. Perfect guy is only exists in the fantasy world~