when you have any problem to who you will share parents or friends???
By 920212
@920212 (577)
Malaysia
May 3, 2010 6:56pm CST
when you have any problem probably who is the best place that you will share is it with your parents or your friends???
10 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 May 10
The best place i will share my problems are my friends. I'm more adept into knowing what they're thinking and therefore, understanding them more clearly. My parents will say the same thing as when i was a child. I know their teachings and i just want specific one which would come from my friends.
@LifeGuru (922)
• Canada
4 May 10
When I have problems, I would normally go to a trustible sibling or a really close friend... That's if... they are willing to listen to what I had to say, I ended up resorting to a friend/acquaintance that I barely knew who listened and aided me with the most proper advice that they can give. I had a vibe to trust this person even if I know that it's not cool to just vent some thoughts to someone who I barely knew - after that we got closer... It kind of ended up being 'more than friends' in the end. If it was not for my accidental actions, maybe I would not have spoken to them like that. Fate? Yes I guess... XD Yea, so I basically share my thoughts and feelings and problems to my boyfriend. -.- And when they're not around... I go bug my brother and vent. ^^
@gaylevillariza (48)
• Philippines
4 May 10
for me, it depends upon the problem..if it is about love its my friends whom im gonna tell about. because they are the one's whom i feel secured with when it comes to love..but about life, school, job or anything not related to love..it would really got to be my parents..because i know they will be there for me through ups and downs in my life and they are there always willing to support me anytime.. :)
@manubla (472)
• Philippines
4 May 10
I am more comfortable sharing it with friends especially if the friend is aware of what's happenning (ie.work stuff). I don't usually share it with my parents, or if I need to, it's not in details because they get affected by it, especially my mom and I don't want them to worry about me.
@siyadhsafar (35)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
4 May 10
well....that is a good thing to think about..... As far as i am concerned,i share almost everything with my friends....cos i believe that for they are of our same age, they can easily understand our problems......
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
4 May 10
Mostly i dont share my problems with neither friends not my parents. I usually keep them to myself. Its because i think that the problem cant be solved if i share it with anyone else. But few problems which i would share with people would be with my friends not parents.
@picjim (3002)
• India
4 May 10
When i have a problem i normally share with three people my wife,parents or friends.Some problems can be handled well by my wife,in such a case i rely on her.Some problems i seek the opinion of my parents.Similarly other problems are better handled by our friends.Depending on the problem i seek the help of wife,parents and friends.
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
4 May 10
I would feel fine with sharing my problems with my friends. I figure they are more understandable than the people that are related to me. Plus they would give me a new fresh perspective on the problem. I would worry that if a family member knew then they would spread it and make it worse. My friends are more trustworthy.
@melloncollie (661)
• Philippines
4 May 10
Before I used to share a lot to my friends more than my family. But now that I am married, I only share it to my wife. Unless of course it's a marital problem which sometimes I share with my parents. Like finances and all.
I was never comfortable sharing problems with my family. I didn't want them to worry about me. I grew up taking what my father always told me, "No one told you to get in, you did it all by yourself, so find your own way out."