what will you do if your close friend doesn't want to reconcile with you?

hi rhoda.....i knew how you feel right now.im sure you were so attached with that friend of yours that's why it is hard for you to let her go.we commit mistakes at times but one must forgive and forget though that is not so easy to do...it takes time...give your friend a time to reflect..i know also that she feels the same as what you feel right now...you have done your best to reconcile with her and she wont listen then its about time to let go...just treasure the moment you have shared with her.pray for her too.give her time to realized things and heal the hurt that was caused by that little mis-understanding....God bless

Hi, In my opinion, it will be best for you to forget the entire thing. She has got over you, at least that what the signs are leading me to. You may have done a mistake and no matter how terrible it was, there is always forgiveness from a true friend. If she is stern in not forgiving you and reconcile, then there is really nothing you can do more about it. Your sincere repentance has already made you clean. Now its the time for you to calm down and look for a substitute. If you can have patience, she will understand the fruitlessness of her rigidity someday and will try to reconcile herself. Thanks God bless you

That was sort of the same situation I was going through, I was friends with this girl who I met at my son's boys group and she asked if I wanted to go for a coffee while the boys were enjoying their time with the group. I accepted her invitation and we became friends that way. We started hanging out and I began working at her job and then it went all downhill from then. We got into an arguement and she began swearing at me. It took everything in my power not to slug her one because of the hurtful things she was saying so I wrote my supervisor and made a complaint about her attitude towards me and she was banned from working on nightshifts. I sometimes miss hanging out with her and wished her and I were friends again. I've never tried to reconcile though and I don't think I would know how to. Take care

was the mistake you made was really that big that it costs your friendship with her? was it that big that she was not able to forgive you no matter how hard you try to win her forgiveness? huh! if i were in your situation, i think after doing everything and asking forgiveness with all my heart and really sincerely apologize and yet she don't want to accept it, then i guess i have no choice but to stop pleading to her. i just let her go and give her space that she needs. if she don't want to be friends with me again, then i can't do anything more. what's the point of pushing yourself to someone who don't like you anymore? maybe she was really hurt with what you have done, so just leave her alone and give her time to think. as long as you have done your part already, then don't confine yourself with such situation. move on. you still want her to be your friend but the question is does she still want you to be her friend. if she can't forgive you then there's really something wrong with the friendship that you build in the past. for me a true friend can forgive.

The best way to get a friend is that you must be one. something must happened but you didn't say and I don't know . I suggest that you always take her as a friend . she will be back .

Hi,In my opinion, it will be best for you to forget the entire thing. Now its the time for you to calm down and look for a substitute. If you can have patience, she will understand the fruitlessness of her rigidity someday and will try to reconcile herself. Thanks