Are you ugly if your not being courted?

eil, I'm sure you're "ugly," and especially if that is your photo as your icon, you look great! I see that you are still pretty young too. If they ask you (or especially not as close people), you can just say, "No, nobody right now." Well, your family is actually lucky that you have even shared anything with them. Usually when younger as a teen, you don't tell your family when you are "going out" or dating a guy. When older, yes, but that's none of their business, and absolutely no reason to tease. Keep that head adn smile up, and do the things that you love doing.

Awe I am sorry that your brother said that you. I do not think that you are ugly by any means. One day you will meet someone who is perfect for you and you perfect for them. Wait and see. Patience brings good things. I have been single for sometime now. I was really taken back last summer when my niece who was in a relationship but not happy claimed that I am weird because I didn't have a boyfriend. Now she is single, does that make her weird? Not. I am fine and am in no hurry to be dating again.

Hardly, you're not ugly just because no one wants you. Maybe your not the personality or intellect they like. There are a myriad of reasons for you not finding Mr/Ms. Right. Just keep waiting; they'll find you.

No, thats not true...there are some pretty girls that don't have boyfriend as well because some guys are just too insecure. Know what I mean?

Maybe you're giving out wrong signals. I see some girls that're really gorgeous but they seem too closed to even talk to. Maybe you need to loosen up a little and be friendly to who ever you meet. :)

i don't think that ugly won't have suitors. just wait and the right one will come. we are all unique as we are all created by God so be it that you're ugly or beautiful the most important is you have a clean heart. Pretty isn't it?

Well, I believe that it's not about being ugly or beautiful physically but it's about being ready and having a great attitude towards others. You are still young and tender and you are not yet ready for a family I guess, so no need to worry. People may try to tease you and the moment you buy into their own scheme, your life will be at a disadvantage. Take time and have fun while you can. Have a great and wonderful day.

i totally disagree! my friend is not unfortunately ugly but she's also an NBSB, and everytime i ask her if she already has a significant other, she gives me that radiant smile and answeres me with a NO, she's perfectly comfortable being single. other women were born "late bloomers" though. and would only get romatically linked in their late 20's, early 30's or even early 40's imagine that!? and being ugly is not even the issue here, it could be any of these ... --you're too beautiful that guys would rather stare at you than court you --you're too rich that you're surrounded by mob of bodyguards --you're too intelligent that men/boys might find it hard to start up an interesting conversation with you --you're climbing the corporate ladder faster than a marathoner that any potential suitor will feel incompetent --you have a poor hygiene?!! ...let your reason be any of those above-mentioned except the last one please! your time will come dear, don't rush it =)

For me no it is not the reason maybe you are to strict if they have someone asking you or your not friendly and don't show your self that your not capable.

I am also being asked by a lot of people whether I have a boyfriend or not. And just like you, I am a NBSB. I am not an ugly person. I think. LOL! My brothers don't tease me about it that much... since they don't have girlfriends. They have absolutely no interest! LOL! I can't say that they're ugly since their looks aren't that bad. They're tall and the face is alright. The only problem is that they have no interest in girls. They prefer playing computer games! I think that's their girlfriend. As for me, I also don't have interest in boyfriends since I have to concentrate on my studies. It's still summer right now so I am enjoying myself.

definitely not true. i'll probably kick my brother if he said that to me. anyways, maybe some guys feel a bit intimidated by you? or that you unknowingly give signs that you're "off-limits"?

Boyfriend has no relationship with ugly-looking ,it's your right to select your boyfriend ,maybe it's not the time you are in love with somebody .I think your brother only play jocks to you ,don't mind .Although love will come in right time .

Of course not..maybe the guys are shy to you because of your personality.. As a friend, I admire you(I swear)..your smart, rich, very active person..You belongs to the girls in the high standard..(true!) Maybe the right guy whom you deserves does not arrive yet..

even less attractive people get into romantic relationships. it really depends on individual circumstances. sometimes, we are too much into one thing that we tend not to notice the other. try to have tiger look and view life in broader perspective. you might not know it but someone could already be knocking in your heart's door.

eli_noz, Love is multifaceted, multidimensional and omnidirectional - it is definitely not as linear as how you have expressed it. If your claims are correct, then Love is only entitled to the chick with the hottest bod with the prettiest face, as well as the dude with the most cash and assets. Duh - since your tunnel vision did not incorporate other factors into consideration. If you are dissatisfied with something about your situation, then you must learn to evolve your weakness and vulnerability into something more manageable. If you want to change your fate, then logically you must work to change it. If not, you are just plain ranting and at the end of the day, it gets you nowhere. To me, it seemed to me that you just want a boyfriend. But if you can’t even be bothered and start with yourself, I think the odds will be stacked much higher against you. I am a firm believer that without Self Love, there can be no Love. If you cannot understand this philosophy, then you will never understand why Love always eludes you. And it has nothing to do with an ugly girl confession = 99% failure.

Maybe you're giving out wrong signals. I see some girls that're really gorgeous but they seem too closed to even talk to. Maybe you need to loosen up a little and be friendly to who ever you meet. :)

Everyone has something special A person can not be simply "ugly or beautiful" You are many qualities and you just put them in front Your brother jokes

yes

It's a no no, there some factors to be considered.