why do love dies?

Philippines
May 5, 2010 12:25am CST
we were so much in love with someone that we thought we would never be able to live without that someone. all we ever think of is that someone, from the time we wake up till the time we close our eyes..we often do things together, visit places together and it seems our world will end without that someone beside us..then how come that a day will come that all that feelings disappear? without any third party involve..there was no fight either..why do then love dies? it seems we have done everything we could to keep the flame alive..but why do love dies...
2 responses
@airakumar (1553)
• India
6 May 10
Hi derie, It' all human feelings. This is actually a very easy question to answer it can't. Love is a emotion that comes from deep within your heart. You can easily fall in love with someone else, but you would never compromise that for the love of your life. If you haven't been there, it's hard to explain. The only problem with love is that you actively need to reinforce that bond. If you neglect your relationship, the love is going to fade away. Thanks.
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
5 May 10
I think sometimes I has to do with the circumstances surrounding us. Sometimes love isn't enough. Also sometimes people change. What we want from each other changes. The way we see each other changes. Love doesn't always die. And I never let it go without a fight. I like to be able to look at myself and say "I tried everything I could." And sometimes maybe it just wasn't meant to be. I've lost a lot of loves in my time and I thought that was the end. But those lost loves taught me things I needed to know to make this current love work. It opened doors to be where I am now. And my current partner and I are very happy and very much in love. Sure we know that could change one day, but we're content to ride it out and try our best to keep this love alive :)