will you initiate the breakup?

i guess guys dont initiate brake up as you will only know they want it if they are gone for many days without any words and girls are like crazy thinking why. i ahte guys whose doing this stuff feels like we are fortune teller who know whats in their mind. normally girls are direct and straight forward. in my case, if i really want to end up with the guy i explained to him why i need to do it and i dont just be gone and look for someone else and leave my ex hanging without knowing the main reason why.

it hard to initiate a breakup for me. in all my break ups, I used silence or distant. Its just difficult most especially when the other party is still and very much interested in the relationship. I can't imagin walking to the lover and telling it right into the face, "ITS OVER" shhhhh!!! Thanks...

Well if there's really no hope for that relationship, then why prolong it. The "do bag things just for the other party to break-up with you", its actually more of a guys style. lol. All my guy friends do that...cause they say they can't bluntly break up with a girl.

For my entire 29 years here on earth. I never initiated a break up in a relationship. For my past three boyfriends its them who initiate the break up. Like what I have now, I already have doubts with my boyfriend. But I still keep on holding on with him. Even if I see myself hopeless, I still keep on holding with our relationship. Maybe you can tell that I am martyr or stupid for keeping this kind of relationship. Just love him so much... that's all I can say..

in all respect, i think honesty should always be the rule. I would tell her honestly that i have fallen out of love and that she needs to know the real score. That way, any pain will not be mitigated by anything else but a lost love.