Will you cut your friendship, if your friend Cheats you or do any mistakes?
By sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
India
6 responses
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
5 May 10
I guess that is understandable that if a friend cheats or do mistakes that makes the other party. It will automatic that friendship stop or over, that's the end of friendship. However time will heal all wounds, even if the scar will remain in their and no matter what you cannot forget it.
Forgetting is not easy, so its not easy to get along with him/her again. It takes time before we could forgive things happened. So along the way, when you meet half way maybe friendship will rekindled. Just maybe but not sure with it.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
5 May 10
Some times automatically it happens but almost we can solve that perticular problem or mistake by talking with each other. It is little bit problem for both to see each others face after that mistake. Any way thanks for your response. Have a nice night.
a friend can say a friend usual i understand your feelings but real friend says i can feel your feelings.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
11 May 10
This is the line I told her when my friend betray me. TO give you an idea, she slept with my boyfriend and I caught them. If she is really a real friend and she feel how painful it is, she should not do that at first. But since she only understand it, and she did not feel what I felt at that time.
Its really automatic that we end our friendship, I no longer talk to her. She still keep on calling me and visit me in our department. Which makes me more pissed off to her, so I decided to resigned in that company. So that I would be far away from her.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
5 May 10
i think it depends on what mistakes did your friend commits!
if you think what your friend had done is unforgivable,then let him/her give a second chance! think of the memories you've been through! think harder if he/she is worth to forgive at all!
i myself had problem with my bestfriend. she was my bestfriend when we're in highschool and we got separated because she kicked out of our school because she's done some stealing at one of the teacher's things in science laboratory.
she then went to province to finish high school then during college,we used to write letters then,until finally she went back to manila.and time for us to bond.
well,she confessed to me that she was kinda weird that time that she took my teacher's things and she's now recovered from what had happened.
one day,she went to our place where only two of us are there,she was inside the house while i'm doing laundry outside.all i know was she's watching tv.
and then suddenly she went out and said she wants to go home,well, then i let her leave because she's been staying almost an hour then.
i trusted her so much even what is her past.
but as i went back to our house,there's something missing!
the saved coins of my father in their bedroom!
what the ----?! i said!
i don't know what to do that time.
yeah,it's just coins but,there were too many five and ten peso coins placed in an empty case of an eyeglass that time!
i just realized it was lost because my father was searching for it,and she was the only person who visited our house then.
i don't think i can trust her anymore.so,i didn't talk to her about it!
since then my feelings for her changed and even i see her i don't trust her anymore.that was like years ago since we last seen each other.
and as of now,i haven't seen her,but i'm gald with it!
i don't care for her anymore! i gave all my trust on her and that's what i'll get in return! WTF!
i'm sooo happy now that she's not a part of my life anymore!
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
5 May 10
hi sach,don't be sorry. i'm over it!
i cannot take again her friendship if she asks me to!
it's like i've given her a chance and i think that's final!
i won't trust her anymore,she's not the only friend i have!
i've met so many friends after her and she was nothing compared to others!
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so again,don't be sorry my friend 'cause here in mylot,i should be thankful enough for discussions like this that i can relate to,which pursues me more to write my own experiences!
@sach143_u (859)
• India
5 May 10
Yummmyyy its a lengthy response i had never seen before!!!! Off course if my friend had done unforgivable mistake then also i can give a second chance. I feel very bad by reading your response. I think on that it did hurt you alot. Because thats your father used to save the coins and those coins always remembers your father i think. I am marking your response as a BEST RESPONSE. If i did hurt you by asking this question then really sorry friend. Take care, happy mylotting.....
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 May 10
It depends how severe the mistake was. Of course i'll get angry but most of the time it's just temporary. I a person who doesn't wanna stay angry forever and don't wanna keep grudges especially with friends.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
5 May 10
Wowww i think you are little bit angry person, see friend if your friend made a mistake first verify the things then you decide. Without verifying if you got angry then your friend will get hurt know. Thanks for your response.
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
5 May 10
If he is truly a good friend of yours I think he deserves a second chance. Maybe he has reasons why he did that act..All problems can be resolved in a diplomatic way, so why not talk and settle the score :)
@sach143_u (859)
• India
5 May 10
Good to talk and settle the things but How you will come to know that your friend is good or bad?