what to do, if you are misunderstood.........
By BISHVDEEP
@BISHVDEEP (63)
India
May 5, 2010 9:59am CST
this is really a bad time for me................
some of my best friends misunderstood me due to which our friendship is just in a threat of breaking.........
the things started as there was a discussion among us on a general topic but then i said something which was misunderstood by my friends and they were very sad as i said that, but i actually didn't meant that........... so, guys can you help me and tell me what to do next.........
4 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 May 10
First off, watch what you blurt out. Only a few can do that though. My advice is make it clear to them that you didn't mean to hurt them. All you wanted to do was state your opinion and they've just perceived it wrongly and it was an honest mistake.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
5 May 10
I think, you should have a conversation with your friends about the issues that they've misunderstood... That is the only and the safest way to get things in order... Don't hesitate, simply start another conversation... Listen to their views and respect those. Moreover, let them know that you respect their views... After they have finished, explain them what was the misunderstanding and everything will be well... Good Luck!
@Bhemzky (423)
• Philippines
5 May 10
Well I think in every relationship good communication is very important. What you can do is talk to them, apologize and explain yourself so that they can understand you. That way, they will be able to learn more about you. People sometimes will misjudge you. It is always ok to explain your side and make them understand you.
@adeena2000 (845)
• Philippines
5 May 10
don't be guilty of what you've said, if you think it was right to say it then stand for it...soon they will understand you... but if what you've said cause trouble and hurt to your peers then make a start to explain and ask forgiveness. tell that you can't afford to loose your friendship.
