what will you do if your love on the internet has been failure?

having contact from the internet is just the tip of an iceberg. soon enough, when the intricacies and nitty gritty the relationship consist of begin to manifest, its crystal clear there's just no chance of success. often the women are the one who get hurt easily, that they cant afford losing from the pressure and insecurities of cyber relationship. there should be boldness from both person that they learn to accept what they hate from the other for the relationship to survive.

If my internet love has been a failure I would take a step back, catch my breath, put my chin up, and move on. Its not going to be easy but we gotta do it if we want to move on. I would look at the break up as a learning experience. Break ups are breakups. THey hurt no matter what. dl

First off I wouldnt do anything that I would regret later. Or anything that could hurt myself. Secondly Im not trying to say its not love. Im just saying its a different side of love. I think its the novelty of it. Love is created by two physical beings growing together as one. This is impossible on the internet. Sure you can talk about tons of things that help to get to know someone but its not the same. Real, true love is hard to find. The fact that this relationship was created and took place on the internet might just be the remedy you need. Regardless of all the above you're still hurting when you have a break up. The only thing you can do is to wait it out. Time truely heals ALL wounds. Everyday gets easier. Drinking and other unhealthy things can get us into all kinds of trouble. dl

I guess any individual who engage with this kind of relationship should be prepared of the possible ramifications. People can lose their loved ones though they've been having physical contacts, how much more when it's only in the internet right? If I were you, stop dwelling with it. Find somebody who can be with you (literally).

I don't belive that there is internet love , it looks stupid , but everyday i see a lot of people who live together and there first meeting was in skype :) haxh cool but for me it is not the best place to meet your partner in the life. Nice discussion.

i liked guys before by internet and been heartbroken always. it is very hard to have a relationship like that. it can work but if both are committed^^ about me i always been the one caring more so thats why i always been heartbroken when loved someone. about relationships i had one before and im in one now but still im afraid. anyway i cried much before and been too sad bcs of internet love :( anyway dont go drink bcs of it ok? you must care for your health^^

meimeibaobi how can you love a person you have never met , never seen 'face to face, maybe you are in love with love,an illusion not a live person, you need to meet a person to know what he is like you must know the person before you can fall in love.Otherwise you are only fooling yourself

it's very hard.... i dont even know how to manage this feeling. that is what exactly im experiencing right now. do i know him as he is? or i just know him for the person i want him to be?. its very hard!

actually, i can really imagine those feelings of one who's in love with a person she knows and only knows on the internet. i dont know how to explain its feeling but it is just that. there something in him that i like and i myself dont know what is it. i know him. i saw him. we're classmates but then we never find time to talk. but through the internet, we've known each other. very much!... it's been almost half a year but then i always look forward for the moment to chat with him... we smile to each other, whenever we see each other.. there is just no time for us to spend time together... the truth is we had never talked to each other personally... i dont even know right at this moment if he's really the one i know. or maybe i just imagine someone who i want him to be. but i like him, and i love him...