Do you change your decission by hearing some other person's words??

India
May 6, 2010 8:57am CST
Just think that you are doing some good work to some one knowingly then if other person pinch you by saying some bad things about them, then without verifying will you change your decission by hearing some other person's words ??!!?!?
5 responses
mitchann
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
6 May 10
Other people's say also could affect my decision.It actually depends,sometimes they enlighten me, but some of it I dont accept it.There are really people who could convince you in any manner whatsoever.
sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
• India
6 May 10
But friend if they convince me then also i won't leave my work because if it is good and if it is helpful to some one then why i have to leave that one easily? We should act wise on that situation.
kquiming
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
6 May 10
Hmmm, no I wouldn't immediately change my decision, I think I'd give my self some time to find out and verify first if what the other person says is really true. And the fact that I'm already doing something good about the first person means I must've already known this person for quite some time now and I should know that this person deserves my friendship. :D
sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
• India
6 May 10
Off course friend we have to verify what exactly the matter is.. other wise it will be a question of one life. Don't hear someone who says bad about otherssssss. Think twice and act wise.
adeena2000
@adeena2000 (845)
• Philippines
6 May 10
of course not, it's up to me to discover it and experience it... even if I heard something about them. The only thing I can do is make a little precautions. I don't want to judge them because of what I've heard.
sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
• India
6 May 10
Good adeena2000, if every one do like this then every one in the world will be fine and every thing will go smoothly. Thanks for your response.
kheigh
@kheigh (215)
•
6 May 10
i don't change opinions just by hearing bad remarks from other people without checking.. that's a bit rude.. and if i do that.. people might do that to me as well and i really wouldn't that to happen..
sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
• India
6 May 10
Nice response, you should not. Off course if you change your decision then obviously they will keep spoiling your life by life long. so don't give any chance to that type of person. Have a nice night..........
ravanliyski
@ravanliyski (58)
• Bulgaria
6 May 10
Nice topic :) Yeah it is advance to change your opinion , if you do not change it it talks that you are lazy to think about the other side :) so think think and finally decide finally :d
sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
• India
6 May 10
Thank you ravanliyski, yup but don't mistake me that i am not lazy, some times if we are doing good to some one then we should not hear or should not seek others opinions just we have to do that work completely without fail.