I like him. She likes him too. Damn!
By Saranggola
@Saranggola (956)
Philippines
May 6, 2010 9:40am CST
The guy that I was talking about on my other post sent me a message again after like 2 years. That was almost New Year and I felt hope again that he might be inlove with me too. My surname is hidden on my friendster account. This is the excuse I made for myself for him not adding me on facebook. LOL. Anyway, I searched him there. His account was made just a month ago and his status is still single. "YEHEY!". We kept on exchanging messages on friendster, but after like only a week, he disappeared again. After 2 months, his status on facebook is now in a relationship. Aww. That was another heartbreak. After 2 or 3 months they broke up. After seeing that, he messaged me on friendster again. I don't know why but I felt guilty. I found out that they were bestfriends but I never asked so he didn't find out that I knew he had a girlfriend and that I was viewing his facebook account. I saw how much the girl loves him so much with her account but they remained friends after all. I knew this is now my chance to tell him finally my feelings for him and that I love him but I'm scared of rejection. Another is because of the girl. I pity her and I feel guilty about it. Damn I just don't know what to do.
6 responses
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
6 May 10
Aww. That's so sad. But I think it would be best to still remain friends with the guy and observe and just wait if he still wants to have that girl back. If he doesn't want her anymore, then that's it, that girl can't do anything about him anymore. Maybe you could be friends in real life not just on FB. Just get to know each other better and wait for him to make the first move if ever the relationship would come to that. At this moment, just take a distance and wait for things to happen. Don't tell your feelings yet.
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
6 May 10
We know each other personally before we became friends online. ^^ The reason why we are talking only through net now is because he lives in Quezon while I live here in Laguna.
@rushmee (605)
• India
7 May 10
ooohhh !!! but what matters here the most is- what does the guy want !
now, that's upto you to get to know what he feels for the girl and what are his feelings for you. in any case, if he wants to be with you, i'm sorry for that girl, but yeahhh u got it !
just be sure that he's not in touch with u again just because he doesn't have girlfriend right now.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
8 May 10
well i think you should tell him all your feelings. Dont be scared of rejection becuase thats the maximum that can happen. If you dont tell him you might regret this all your life and never be with him. Just listen to what your heart says and do it NOWW. Hope this will help you.
@jacquiline (124)
• Philippines
8 May 10
feel free to to friends with him ..if you really like the person why not take the risk to be with him as long as your not hitting anyone on your way. know your limitations and be specific with your priorities.above all you should love yourself more more than anyone else.
