how can you let go when you're too much inlove with that person?:(

Dear rhodalyn, I can understand your feelings. As we grow up , life teaches us many lessons. Love is one most important method of life to teach us living. You know, the day we fall in love, we actually sign a contract with tears.....even the great writers and poets have written beautifully, how love mostly ends in tears. Love is mixed feeling of joy , excitement , passion and finally pain, Today you have fear of losing him and so you are in pain, but if you will have him, even then after ten years you may feel sorry for this decision. May be not, may be yes. So I will say, you should try your best to save your love, but if you cannot, then let it go, Time is the best healing medicine, As time will pass, you will learn to smile again, but this time you will be more strong and matured and surely someone better will come in your life.Someone whom you really deserve....Best of luck and remember me when you will learn to smile.

its hard for me to let go..........always in love....now started to like pain....sadness is beautiful

rhodalyn, Well, for a start accept the fact that the both of you are through and then do whatever you can or have to motivate yourself to see enjoy your life henceforth alone. I mean what is it to her that you are crying yourself blind, painted your room black or dislocate from all your friends and family members. Well, let me be harsh and cruel here by saying that she does not feel a single thing. Let me tell you a likely scenario: here you are crying over spilled milk and there she reveling in her new life, having a ball of her life. Recovery is by choice and quiet reflection, often spurred from personal enlightenment. So, do you really want to continue to hold onto nothingness and continue to be melancholy? It's your choice.

Dont let him go away, just say your heart out to him. I am sure he would love you back, just make him feel that you really love and you just want him in your life to make everything perfect. Just do this NOW. One thing i would say is that if you wouldnt say anything he might go away, so why not jsut say it and then see what happens. I am sure he wont leave you :)

If you loves him truly then you can wait for years for him/ her to understand you better. So be patience and try to express your true love on him/her.

hi rhodalyn, your asking how to let go? its very hard to let go when that somebody is the one you love the most.. my friends say, if you want to let go. just find another person like that person. but i find that answer as an excuse.. for there is no person like the one you love... its hard to say goodbye when you do not want to let go of him... just be formal and tell him what you feel...

The best way to get over someone is by cutting him out of your life. Even though if you miss him and have the urge to contact him just hold your ground. I know how you feel and its really hard not to try and win back the love you lost. But I always believe if someone is really meant for you then you wouldn't have to worry cause it will all work out. Anyway if you are still suffering I suggest you air out your feelings here or in a blog. Whenever I miss my ex I usually post it on my blog. Its one way for me to air out all my feelings and get on with my life. Time heals all wounds and your wounds will heal to in time. I was pretty much in the same situation as you a couple of months ago. In fact I really needed professional help that time cause I was depressed. It was an agony for me to wake up knowing that she was no longer in my life. But I decided to get up and move on with my life. I knew then that it wouldn't be easy but I wanted to act on it and did everything that I can to counter my depression. That is why I exercised to increase my endorphines. I jogged at least 3 times a week and I went out with people who were happy. I also learned to accept reality everyday when I wake up. Hang on there rhodalyn. Everything will will be alright.

well well, i think most people have gone through the same experience including me..well time will heal everything..as for my case, I'm still single now although it's been nearly a year since I broke up..I really love her and am trying hard to forget her though..but time will heal that's all i say say and just let him go..else you have to fight for him then..

It's hard to let go. It hurts and it takes a long time. As cliche as it sounds, time will heal your broken heart. In time you'll be able to move on and maybe even find someone else. Look at me, I've had my heart broken at least a dozen times. I've been dumped and cheated on and so on. But I've moved on and I'm happy and in love with who I believe to finally be "the one." Only time will tell tho... The pain really will go away in time. I wish you the best in healing your broken heart. Cry if you need to. Do little things that make you happy to try to keep busy. And it will get better.