Meaning of your parent life

They say what you do to your parents, your children will also do the same to you. I am afraid that if I become a mother, my children will do the same thing as I did to my parents, I am not that nice to them but of course I love and respect them. I just have to teach my children good manners very well and will love them so they will love me back.

That's what most chinese are always saying.. IT's just like a retribution thing.. However, most of us wont realise it, til we have kids of our own.. Because we dun tend to believe in future, and we all are too engrossed into self believing, that things will be different, because we have our ways.. haha =D BUt at the end of the day, when kids dun listen to us, we will still revert to the old days.. lol =D