My Ex is winning me back: Will I give him/her another chance?
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 7, 2010 6:13pm CST
When I enter a blog site this morning the hot topics is letting go,love and accepting back the one you love who hurts you before.They are discussing there is still you will accept you ex gf/bf if he/she is winning you back.
In your point of view, are you going to gave him/her a chance?
11 responses
@leizl_toribio (14)
• Philippines
8 May 10
If things are going well...y not?..after all if you still love him just give him the chance.remember.." love is sweeter the second time around..
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Maybe thats case to case basis.What if he left you before because of another girl,then that girl left him also and now he has nothing to turn to, then he remember you and this time he wants you back,still you will gave him a chance without thinking?
@leizl_toribio (14)
• Philippines
20 Aug 13
yes, i forgot to consider the reason of your previous break up =D
well, in that case. i insist "NO". A man must learn to value his girl while she's there. Girls should not be compared to any other things where they( boys) can have or leaved anytime they wanted to. If he really love her, he would never leaved her at the very first place just to be with another girl. Love is not a just a feeling but a decision and commitment. Better wait for a guy who would truly love you and will never leave you no matter what.
@xxazndragon01 (1250)
• United States
8 May 10
Well elleb0418 for me personally if i were to get back with someone who broke my heart and fyi this is coming from a mans point of view if that makes a difference anyways if i get back with a girl it would have to be because of the fact that i truely love her and we have a deep connection or else i know for a fact it is just because she feels bad and stuff if it was like those relationships that i just talk to her like once a week no i would just let go because its not worth trying if she is to busy for me.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
So are willing to accept her back? Well it's your own opinion maybe you already think about it when you do that.Love sometimes made us blind,we don't see it's bad side only the good side.
@xxazndragon01 (1250)
• United States
8 May 10
that is true i was once in a relationship with a girl who was amazing but her one flaw was that she put me det large det like i couldn't pay it off so i had to get a lown from a friend of mine thank god that guy is rich and thank god i knew him if it wasn't for him i would be in jail for not paying for anything not even taxes and stuff
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
8 May 10
That depends on the reason of the breaking up and why is he winning you back. Although I believe in second chances and that it is sweeter on the second time around. If he is the one who broke up with you and realized that he hurt you and he is willing to change for the best and promised not to hurt you again then, you must think about it many times before giving him the chance. On the other hand, if the breaking up is for some personal reasons like career related or personal problems which he needs to give priority of, then I think he deserves to have a second time around.
I once encountered a saying that goes, once a guy broke your heart or hurt you then all of a sudden wants you back, think again and do not expect that he won't hurt you again because in the first place he will not hurt you amd break you up if he really loves you....
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
One more chance? For me its very hard. Yes I believe in what you said that If he loves you he will not broke your heart.Second chances is so hard to do, when the reason is he exchange you with someone else.
Like the line in the movie." You have me at your best, she had me at my loss but you choose to break my heart".
@marika22 (5)
•
8 May 10
Love is a very complex relationship, and yes I do believe in giving him/her another chance...why not? Everyone is entitled to a second chance. Well we're supposed to have learned something from our mistakes in the past and hopefully we don't get to repeat the same mistakes all over again. Who knows, it might just work out for the better. Remember there is no perfect relationship, we just have to work out the flaws and usually accept what we can't change. Well, if you're not happy with it...then you always have the option to get out of the relationship. Don't just expect him/her to change his/her ways solely for you. If they change, then you're one lucky person. The change is being done for you. If not...then live with it. Or get out of the relationship.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
9 May 10
Like what said, stay if you are happy leave if your not.Don't waste your time to someone who did not value your worth as a person..If sometimes giving another chance is the best way think it twice or million times,who knows he will repeat what he did to you before.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
9 May 10
Love can make also things worst,I know love has no boundaries, but sometimes it make us think what's the best for us.Live for love but also learn the lessons it brings.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
When you do it you must be aware for the consequences again.Yes giving another chance is not bad,but try to figure it out if he is true to what he says that he will never hurt you again.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
8 May 10
That depends on the reason of the breaking up and why is he winning you back. Although I believe in second chances and that it is sweeter on the second time around. If he is the one who broke up with you and realized that he hurt you and he is willing to change for the best and promised not to hurt you again then, you must think about it many times before giving him the chance. On the other hand, if the breaking up is for some personal reasons like career related or personal problems which he needs to give priority of, then I think he deserves to have a second time around.
I once encountered a saying that goes, once a guy broke your heart or hurt you then all of a sudden wants you back, think again and do not expect that he won't hurt you again because in the first place he will not hurt you amd break you up if he really loves you....
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
8 May 10
For me if you noticed that they have to prove by himself in you why? not.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
8 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think if my Ex or my girl will try her best to love me and care me as often as possible,which I think I willl give her the second Chance to accept her love.If she just need the love and the care of mine and do not care me at all, I think I think I will not accept her love at all. Love must be equal,then the life can be happy.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
8 May 10
If she hurt me before by dating other guy then I will no give her a chance. If she did it before then Its possible she will do it again. But reasons other than that I think I can give her another chance. Its just that I really hate those that are not loyal to their partner.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
That's why giving a chance will be case to case basis right?depending on the reason why.
@jacquiline (124)
• Philippines
8 May 10
been there ,done that. here how it goes. anything that happens for the first time might not happen again.But anything that happens for the second time will surely happen the third time. think about it.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Very well said. I always do believe in all you said.If he did it, after you gave him another chance I know he will do it again.
