Bad Sister

United States
May 7, 2010 8:31pm CST
okay so I am 22 my kid sister is 12 and my baby sister is 6.. they live with my dad.. my dad lives about 30 minutes away.. I have to little girls and I am pregnant.. if you can't get the idea I NEVER get to hang out with my sisters I have my own family and I just don't really have time for them.. I feel like a bad sister.. we are all by the same parents so I have a tendency to blame them for having us so far apart.. I mean I do what I can when I get a chance but it really is not all that often..
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
8 May 10
Why not have them come to your house. I bet they would love to help with their nieces! I certainly understand why you dont have time, but soon they will be all grown up!
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@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
8 May 10
I can totally relate to this. I have an elder sister. My sister is 11 years older than me. So when I was in school, she was busy hanging out with her friends at college. When I was in the 9th grade she got married and moved away to another country! That was really bad. I missed her sooo much. But she finally came back to our country. She lives in another city now. So we meet up once a year (vacations). No matter what, we do miss each other. But I never blame her for being a bad sis. I love her and she is great! I assure you, your kid sisters know and will know that you love them, as long as you make a few phone calls every week. Take care of you and your soon to be little one. :) Just you thinking that you may be acting like a bad sis goes to show that you are a sweetheart
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 May 10
hi lillybelledaisyrose wow only 22 and with two little girls and another child on the way, and you think you are a bad sister just you cannot visit or see them as often as you would like? Your dad could help out a lot on that situation as it would not hurt him to bring them to see you once in a while .I would think it would be easier than you taking two children with you and being pregnant at the same time.Just a suggestion but do not whip yourself and call yourself a bad sister cause I sure do not think you are one.Call them whenever you have time and invite them to come see you.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Sometimes I also feel like I am the bad sister. I have two older sister and they are really good. I can tell that they are all the way obedient to my parents and all that. I think I was the only one who was always against something. I still follow but I always wanted my voice heard even if that is not possible like most of the time.
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