is it okay for a girl to do the first move
By Patzi_anele
@Patzi_anele (132)
Philippines
May 8, 2010 6:17am CST
because of our culture here in our country, it is not good to see a girl to make the first move to a guy she really likes, how can a girl show it without making the guy conscious with regards to your moves. i mean a girl also has the right to choose the one she really likes, but how .
2 responses
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Of course its okay. We are now living in the time when anyone can and should express what he or she feels. The girl can first tell the guy and if the guy don't like when she's the one making the move then dumped him. What kind of guy is that? Too old fashioned and too closed minded. Two contrasting characteristic which will just lead to chaotic relationship.
@Patzi_anele (132)
• Philippines
8 May 10
two thumbs up, yup some guys see girls 'cheap' when they do the first move. but those guys are closed-minded, and better to be dumped.
@elsewhere (53)
• Philippines
8 May 10
It is okay. I also live in that kind of culture but really, we have to (start, at least) break free from something that we deem to be unrightfully impeding us. But then again, since the culture is dominant, it would help if we level off.
So start with simple things such as being caring and sweet while talking to him, by always wanting to engage in conversation. By trying to sincerely know him. Assess how the boy would most likely react to further "moves" and start from there.
@Patzi_anele (132)
• Philippines
8 May 10
ei thanks for the response, some guys has a weak personality where they are shy to approach the girl so some times girls have to make their first move so not to lose this guy.
