Do you have the feeling that love is dissaster in a pink cover?

Dear, there are many people who will understand love different ways. The ones, who will say love is amazing, cuz they found a person who is giving them this love. There are the ones, who will say love doesn´t exist, because they didn´t meet the right person yet or they had a very bad experiences. I think, that here exist real love. That is the love i was speaking about. When someone makes u safe, comfortable and makes u feel special. But unfortunatelly here is false love too. Because sometimes people feel like they love, but they donno if it is love or not. They didn´t experience the love yet so they are not sure about it. Its more selfishness than a love. They want to get something for themselves and not for others. People who are saying they love, but they are not willing to make the person who they "love" more happy than they are willing to make thelseves happy, they don´t really love. This is just actions that have a cover with a name "love" on it. but it has nothing comon with love. But yea, they believe they love! Sometimes girls are packing love to pink cover, cuz they donno anything about real love. Mostly girls are the ones, who are seeing everything in pink colors, but in real the colors are very dark. We are just sometimes too blind, that we don´t see the shades of our loves! The only real love we can get is the love of God. This is the real not selfish love. But love between people. Those people must be really so clean to love without the satisfaction of themselves, but in a purpose to satisfy and make happy the others.

Exactly.The way a person perceives love,it may because someone is not true or whatever,is a person's illusion.Let me say that for love,it is not necessary that the other person should love you for you to love him/her.Thats nothing to do with Love as such.Love is eternal and omnipresent.

Do you think that love like this exist between people then? That someone loves so clean without any hidden intentions, without wanting the love from the other person? I am not sure about it. Sometimes i feel this love exist just in romantic movies.

hi Emerillus, i think u r right. I was always thinking, that more than love important is respect. If someone respect u, ur ideas, ur personality, than here can come the love. But unfortunatelly its not very easy to find a people who respect u so they are able to love u too. Also i think, that this first "love" doesn´t stay with us all the time. Feelings change and our love also changes. It got a different forms ..maybe so many forms, that the word itself is losing its real meaning.