fall in love again

Its not a question for me, If I married I will loyal to my husband and I am demand the same thing from him. How can you said you become barrier to your husband and that woman?. That woman who become barrier with you and your husband. You are his wife and the mother of his child. Don't under estimate your self there is must be a reason why he married you in the first place. You can sue her if she married your husband without your permission. What kind of woman who make love with other woman husband. Be strong my friend, you have a son.

hahah that is not good mama.. forget about that feeling.. . you are bound to spend the rest of your life with the man whom you were married.. anyway, it is also unfair in your side that your husband is allowed to marry a lot of times so my final say is: to make it fair, try also pursuing that feeling...

If you are married and fall in love with someone else then you should not be married. When I married it was because I was inlove and how can you be inlove and then fall inlove again? Not possible in my way of looking at things. People need to be sure that who they are with is who they want to be with forever.

I wouldn't let that happen. I made a vow to my wife that I would love her. If I would see my feelings stirred by another woman, I would stay away from that woman. We are responsible adults and so we need to act responsibly. The vow is made before God and we would need to keep the promise we made.

I understand your situation. you must be very miserable with this condition. you must be strong and always looking forward. hopefully someday, will come to your happiness. if you wait, heaven will be waiting for you. you behave naturally should wives in general. someday your husband will love you completely. you have a child, and you must continue to fight for your child.

This happened to me and I am now married to the guy I fell in love with. Make sure it is worth it. Think about who you are really in love with and if it's both it sucks worse. I loved my husband but hadn't been in love for a while. Now I am still in love with my new husband and our relationship is so much better than it was with my ex but it was a hard road and I lost a lot of friends and family members because of my decisions. I would say my best advice make sure you are done with your husband or at least get done with one of them, and dont end things because of the other person end them because you need them to end.

Different types of answers can come to this post depending on the tradition and culture we are from.As for me,there need not be a single love in a person's whole life.And we need not restrict like that.But it is not advisable to switch from one partner to other all the way in your life.Just stick to one and keep the other love burried to your heart.

a very difficult situation. associated with a feeling very difficult to compromise. but if we are able to restrain themselves, may not occur. our husband may find flaws in yourself, and then your husband, get the excess to other women. usually like that happens. hopefully you can improve your relationship with your husband.

dear indahfth, i wonder if your religion is muslim? because if it is, i think the man is allowed to have several marriages. i am a very possessive person so i am sure being in your place will be so difficult for me to be adjusted to. i only hope that your relationship with your husband will get better. cheers, ann

If you have a lot of money and the law allows you to get divorce then go for it. There's no use spending your entire suffering in a marriage that don't work. But if your law don't allow it, then you have to exert effort and perhaps go to counselling to make the marriage work. If it fails, you can keep the other girl a mistress and prepare for any trouble that will be the consequence of your act.

I have been married for 7 years and have two children. I tried to be faithful. I avoid myself from special relation with other woman. I am afraid if I fall in love to another woman. I think if just like other woman is not betray our love.

I think it can't happen to me. :) I am not married, but I have a girl friend. we have been together for 3 years. I appreciate everything she did for me. and I think love is a feeling, but marriage is a kind of responsibility. so, you can like someone, but not love someone.

I believe that we can only fall in love to only one person at a time. So if you fall in love to another person then its time to break up your current marriage because something is missing in your current relationship. But be sure you do not regret this and stick to your decision until the end.