Are your thoughts in mind more negative or possitive?
By chaloa
@chaloa (29)
Czech Republic
May 9, 2010 6:33am CST
We all have a moments, when we think a lot. Do you think about problems in your life or better about a nice moments? Are you a negative or possitive person in thinking? If you think negatively are ur thoughts running to such a level, that u regret that parents gave u birth?
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18 responses
@Beautyfactor (1512)
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9 May 10
I am more of a negative thinker than a positive one. I guess that I am just very cautious when making decisions and I always think of the downs before the ups. I find it very difficult to think positively, particularly if i think a situation could go wrong.
@nuj_kmr (171)
• India
26 Jul 10
I never regret to my parent because i enjoy the life.I never used to think negative things to others.........i always think positive.If we think positive, everything will work in positive way .Positive step will take in a right manner .So always think positive attitude in your mind ......forget negative words.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
20 May 10
I can't really resist of being a negative thinker, it is easy to say and think that I must think positive but with the people around me and for being in a harsh environment I can't really cope up to think positively. And yes it is true that I regret that my parents gave me birth since they are putting me down, wants me to see I am offended or hurt, being an outlet if they hate someone else and they are disappointed to the fact that I was not able to meet their demands. Wishing that in a second life I am with a family that has a good environment not just with love but they will respect me as woman and human since I was not able to experienced it in my family, that was kinda depressing on my part and I think I would die because of full depression. It seem that they don't want me to see successful and being happy.
@camomile07 (1420)
• Germany
18 May 10
Well, usually I have positive thoughts in my mind because I think that everything might have its solution at their proper time. Sometimes we only need patience to see our problems or needs resolved. Even thinking positivly, there are moments in my live a get negative thoughts. But when those appear, I try to turn them into a positive one to avoid any depression. Live offers us a plenty of nice and usefull moments and possibilities so that's why I try to enjoy every moment.
@geniusvinz (419)
• Philippines
16 May 10
I'm quite a negative thinker..Maybe because I always feel like being left out by my friends..Sometimes, I think they only come to me whenever they need anything or maybe I'm just seeing it the other way..Another reason why maybe I'm a negative thinker is because I always feel that others are more blessed than me..I always think why others are more intelligent and lucky in life..
But sometimes, I think about the saying "There will always be better and lesser persons than you are"..It somehow reduces my negative thinking, knowing that we are blessed in different ways..
@screwdriver (643)
• Philippines
10 May 10
I am more of a positive thinker person. I don't need negative thoughts in my life. Well, negative thoughts are my driving force to excel and be positive in life. When I experience negative things in life, i always look on the other side.
@sheetalnr (586)
• India
16 May 10
I do tend to think negatively, but it os only to make me be careful. Also, it all depends on my mood that day. If i had a great day, then positive thoughts flow through my head and vice versa.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
9 May 10
I live a very positive life. Even if things are bad, they can always be worse. Sure it is a twisted type of positivity in many ways, but at least it is something. There is always something that I might not have and thus I appreciate that I do in fact have. I do have problems but there are many things in my life that could be much worse. The fact is that all of us have problems.
I have never regretted living my life or being born. Every moment, both good and bad, has been valuable in different ways. I would not really trade my life as it is. It is not something that I would really want to trade up any time soon. So, in the end, the positive parts of life will give me strength to get through any negativity. If I focused too much on the negative, then I cannot really enjoy the positives in life.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
9 May 10
Oh, no. I am a very positive thinker. I have developed this since I learned that positive is more beneficial than focusing your mind on bad or negative thoughts. I have also been a believer in myself and in my capability to accomplish tasks. There are a lot of negative things that happen but I try to look at the good side of it or find ways of relieving my thoughts from the negativity of those incidents, I try to talk it out and share it with close members of the family. We all know that negative thoughts and feelings can all translate to ill health.
@alexies29 (124)
• Philippines
10 May 10
I love my parents and I feel lucky and blessed to have them. I'd love to think happy and positive thoughts. I usually think of my family and my future. If you just let negative thoughts flood in your mind, then negative things will happen. It's important to try to be happy at all times despite of whatever problems that you have. It'll just pass by if you are always on the positive side.
@CynicalStephen (283)
• New Zealand
10 May 10
My name denotes my mindset. Yes, I'm cynical and it's through no fault of mine. It's just that the people around me are so cruel. They take advantage at anyone's weaknesses to further their own status among their friends. The people that I see everyday are disgusting human beings who think it is ok to bully. Unfortunately , I'm one the usual victims of their verbal abuse. Honestly it's makes me feel that life is only to suffer...It makes me depressed and makes me question my own self worth... :( I wish I were more positive but I just can't seem to find it within myself. My life is just in shambles in all other aspects as well , expect my grades. That's probably the only thing that gives me any sort of hope for a better future.
@alocure (370)
• United States
9 May 10
i always try to keep positive thoughts because negative thoughts just make people crazy and i dont want to think about anything that would cause me to do anything crazy. being on this earth i can find some place happy so far a happy home is where i wanna be first.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
9 May 10
I try not to thing negatively even when in worst-case-scenarios. Well, not to the point that I'd wish I've never been born...anyway it's not easy to be positive all the time - especially when troubles arise and it's hard to get yourself out of difficult, impossible situations...I'm sure we've all experienced that at some point in our lives. Anyway what works for me when having a bad day is singing / playing music. It's soothing and relaxing. It helps me take my mind off problems. And once I feel better, I feel more confident, calm, and ready to focus on finding solutions for my problems.
@Tangeryne (412)
• India
9 May 10
Hey Chaloa.. I'm a pessimist through and through. Life has made me that way so I'm prone to look at things negatively. But that doesn't stop me from look at things rationally!!
@LillyBelleDaisyRose (285)
• United States
9 May 10
I go through spouts... ones where I love life and everything is wonderful but then are those times that usually last about 2 weeks where I hate myself and I don't think that I can do anything right and I become very upset with others because I don't understand what I did so wrong to have my situation and theses other people that have done worse have no problems..I get to where I hate myself but I hate others more... but it goes away after a little while... and it doesn't happen to often.. my husband just listens to me grip then lets it go
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
9 May 10
There are times that I think positive and there are times I am negative. But overall I think I'm a positive person. When I'm in a pinch I always tell my self that this will end and everything will work out just fine. And that's what usually happen. So I look at every problem in a positive way. That way it tends to be more manageable.