What love has taught you lately?
By _Honey_
@_Honey_ (780)
Philippines
May 9, 2010 11:48am CST
I've learned that true love doesn't rely on sparks, spur of the moments or fleeting emotions. I learned that not all people who jibe with would be the right one for you. Loving is accepting your differences and building a bridge between the gap for you to make a connection. It's a matter of adjusting to your partner as your partner does the same.
What about you? What has love taught you?
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@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
9 May 10
love has just taught me not to love again.. the true love can be my wife.. no one else.. whom i can trust.. other wise i can not trust girls.. evry time i love some one.. but i failed.. but when i succeeded then i was hurted..now i have decided not to love again..
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
10 May 10
That's so sad. It feels like you've been into a very traumatic relationship. Whatever you've been through, I pray for your healing. I pray for some time to allow you to breath and work things out on yourselves. I know you'll be just fine. God bless!
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@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
10 May 10
thank you very much for ur pray.. but just want to say that do what ever you want.. love or dont love.. but never tell a lie.. those lies hurts..
@roldango (230)
• Philippines
9 May 10
I have learned that love is really patient, never jealous, envious nor proud. it is never selfish. Love always hope for the best. Loving someone is accepting everything about that someone no matter what. Love most of the time gives. It doesnt hold grudges and is never rude.
You'll know when you find the love of your life because you think less of yourself as you give more of your being. Love for me is everything. It is the greatest thing that could ever happen to a person.
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
9 May 10
I have found the same things you did. There is no such thing as love at first sight. It might be true for some people but it most probably the exception and not always the case. I also know that adjusting to your partner's need is sometimes hard, some might even call it troublesome but it is worth our time. Sacrifice is also one of them and deriving inspiration from our partners would spin a healthy relationship.
Not all that glitters are gold though. Love can be tough, hurtful and not all ends in a fairy tale ending. Most would end in a painful twist of powerful emotions, some would just drift away. Things always happens that would come in between of you and your partner and that thing always happens. Its a thing called life.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
10 May 10
I am glad to know that we both realized the same thing. I myself realize that true love, in most cases, doesn't just come in overnight. Love is not an easy thing. It requires huge investments of time,understanding, compromises and sacrifices.
However, not all that starts well has a happy ending. Some people end up apart. Probably because they're not really meant for each other. Sometimes, even sunshine burns when you get too much. But what matters is the learning you'll get in the end and your endless inspiration and motivation to keep moving forward. Thank you so much for your sharing.
