Do you garden with others' enjoyment in mind?

After I tore out the weeds - Lots of Creeping Charlie, a lovely weed with purple flowers that grows almost as fast as Kudzu!
@dragon54u (31634)
United States
May 9, 2010 12:12pm CST
I was not going to put flowers outside my garage this year--I'm just too busy and honestly, I don't have much motivation right now. But when I went outside this morning and saw my neighbor's yard I changed my mind. I get to see their lovely flowers all summer and really enjoy them. Why should they come out their back door and see my garage surrounded by Creeping Charlie (expletives deleted!) and dandelions? Last year I had impatiens there because they like the shade they get in that spot and it looked very nice. My neighbors even told me how much they enjoyed seeing them every day. So today I went out and tore out all the weeds. There were a couple of flowers I'd planted last year that returned and I left them, of course. We still have frost here every few mornings so I won't plant for a week or more but I'll do it. Do you garden for your neighbors' enjoyment as well as your own?
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
9 May 10
I garden with flowers just for us, but our vegatable garden brings pleasure to many during the Summer, of course you can't count the bags of summer squash that I place on people's door steps and then run. Only planting three squash plants this year. I Promise
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
I'm sure those people appreciated it! Don't you love giving anonymously? It's so fun to think of their faces when they get the gift! I'll probably be giving away tons of tomatoes this year, I don't like them much but I love growing and picking them!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
9 May 10
We eat tomatoes until I think we are going to turn into one. We make salsa, and even green tomatoe jam. They taste so much better than the ones we get in the market that we just pig out.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
I never liked tomatoes until I grew some a couple years ago and my mom made me try one. What a difference! Still, I can't eat a lot of them so I'll gladly share!
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
9 May 10
I have done away with my flower beds, they now have vegetables planted in them. I don't have much room and helping with our food budget is more important at this point.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
We do have to be practical these days! What are you growing? I can't plant for at least a week, we are still getting frost here. I think that vegetables are nearly as beautiful as flowers.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
9 May 10
I planted some cucumber and squash seeds. My green onions are planted. I have tomato, pepper plants, grape tomatoes, and 1 strawberry plant that I bought with a few blooms. I have planted my lettuce and spinach, and some green bean seeds. I planted the green beans in a flower box that we used to have for a rose bush. It is about 6x6. Don't know how much I will get, but worth a shot. I planted 6 cabbage plants that I have covered the nights that call for frost.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
Maybe you can plant enough to freeze some for this winter? I learned that you can freeze most things. I might buy a dehydrator, too, to preserve some stuff and make beef jerky for hard times.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 May 10
hi dragon54u I used to garden with everyone's enjoyment in mind as we had some back yard and a large front yard, so I would plant various annuals and bi-annuls along side the front sidewalk both because I love flowers and also because my neighbors seemed to like seeing my gardening effort too. when I came here to California i had a large backyard so had flowerbeds, veggie garden and an herb bed too. I managed to grow so many tomatoes and zucchini that I was always giving some away to our neighbors and friends till they would cry uncle. but yes I did sort of keep my neighbors in mind as some really liked what i had done with the front and back yard both.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
I will probably be giving away produce this year, too, if the frost ever stops so I can start the garden! I think flowers make the neighborhood look nice and since we have about half and half renters and owners here, flowers might attract better renters that might eventually become owners. I always appreciated neighbors who took the trouble to make their yards not just nice but really beautiful.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
9 May 10
Hi dragon. When we moved here three years ago the property was so barren! Oh, there were a few flowers around but nothing to write home about, you know? It was obvious that whoever lived here before us didn't care about what it looked like. To me, it was a blank canvas. I've been planting flower bulbs, bushes and trees since we moved in. I had been concentrating on doing near the house and expanding the herb garden out back (only chives were growing there when we moved in) but, last year, I got a late shipment of "Rembrant tulips" and some double daffodils. They arrived in the early fall. I thought about where to plant them for some time before it dawned on me that I should plant them where the neighbors would pass them by every day so I planted them at the beginning of our driveway. This Spring, they came up and looked so beautiful that several of our neighbors have stopped to comment on how lovely they are. Of course, I had to slow down and look at them every time I passed as well because they really did a lot to brighten up the driveway area. It has motivated me to do more around our property that borders the communal road. I know all about that Creeping Charlie! I pull up bunches of it every time I go outside... and I do mean EVERY time! That stuff is, well, just as you said... expletives deleted! Not much grows in our gravel driveway but that does! Grrrrr!!! Maybe I'll use poison on it on the driveway this year. I try not to use poisons at all but had to last year because the poison ivy from the woods was encroaching on my landscaped areas and I'm not about to touch it so I used an herbicide specifically made to kill poison ivy. I can't tell you how many hours I've spent just pulling Creeping Charlie up from the gravel driveway! Maybe an herbicide will kill the roots once and for all. Well, here's to gardening and brightening up not only our lives but the lives of our neighbors!
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 May 10
Yep, that Charlie is a pain in the patootie!! I love to know that I'm giving someone something beautiful to look at. I can't wait till the temps are right so I can start planting out front. I have a small space in front of the porch perfect for impatiens. My neighbors BIL planted loads of stuff a couple weeks ago and some of it has been frost damaged. Man, I can't believe this weather!! Isn't it usually warm in May?! I don't think I remember frost in May. Go get Charlie, go for the poison!!
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
9 May 10
We've had two frost advisories in the past couple weeks and we may have another one tonight. It's supposed to go down to 35 tonight which really is bizarre for May. New England just got more snow recently! I have one tomato plant, one pepper plant and one eggplant in the ground and have had to cover them up every time they call for nighttime temps in the mid-30s and I'll be doing that again for tonight. (I bought these plants because I'm so very anxious to get some fresh veggies that I couldn't wait until I got the ones I've grown from seed to be planted.) I have quite a lot of strawberry plants this year and have had to cover them up as well. They like it cool but not freezing plus there are so many strawberries growing with more and more blossoms all the time that I'd hate to see them damaged by frost. I ADORE my strawberries! We've had such weird weather since last Spring that nothing surprises me anymore. I've learned to be more prepared and pay close attention to the weather forecasts now. We've had days in the mid- to upper-90s mixed in with those nights in the mid-30s recently. It's nuts! I keep covers to protect against frost and light row-covers to protect against extreme heat nearby at all times. I'd hate to be a commercial farmer with the weather being so psychotic!
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
10 May 10
My across the street neighbor has thanked me for [planting the flowers in my yard for her to enjoy. The first time she did that, I thought she was kidding, but I found out that she was serious. She has mentioned several times since then how much she enjoys the flowers we plant in the front of the house. Another neighbor, the one who lives on the east of us, has thanked us for the tree we planted on the west side of our front yard, as it shades his house on the hot summer afternoons.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
10 May 10
That was very nice of your neighbor to tell you how much she appreciates your flowers! I love sitting on my porch and since the house across the street sold this winter the new owners have put in a lovely garden in front. I so enjoy the colors and the beauty of it. Our street has very modest houses but some truly spectacular yards! It's nice when we know our efforts are appreciated!
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
10 May 10
Hello, Dragon. I really admire people who know how to garden and raise beauty all around the place. I am unfortunate not to be gifted with green thumbs. I do not know anything about gardening. However, I am a great admirer of beauty created by nature.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
10 May 10
I didn't used to be able to even grow a weed! However, when I was stuck in the Southwestern desert I got so homesick for flowers that I developed a green thumb from stubbornness and determination! I think you probably could if you really tried.
• United States
17 May 10
I want our front lawn to be neat for the neighbors and myself, but I don't plant flowers so they have something nice to look at. I do have some flowers, but they are mostly to attract butterflies, bees and other beneficial bugs to help pollinate the garden and feed on pests. I have also planted blueberries, blackberries, key lime and satsuma in the front. The backyard is mostly vegetables and herbs, but it has a privacy fence (don't have to worry about all those raised beds looking beautiful). I garden because I enjoy it. Growing edibles does help with the grocery bill, but I get more satisfaction out eating something that I grew from a packet of seeds or a little plant from the hardware store. Good luck with your gardens!