i love you no more

Hi, Well the kind of love you are talking about is actually based on attraction. Two people can't come close even to become friends if they are not attracted to each other. Now, sometimes physical attraction becomes the dominant factor in a relationship. This ultimately ruins the essence of the relationship itself. Now the physical beauty doesn't stay for long. So there becomes a need for mental attachment as well. In long run its this psychological attachment that keeps people together. Infatuation and attachment is the starter of any mortal relationship. They can't be blamed as as human beings we have only few other options. Thanks God bless you

I beg to differ. There are moments in time when a person cause you pain enough to diminish the true feeling of love you have for that someone. Particularly when you find out that he isn't who you thought he was, this may be in the form of: a. Finding out he's married - you love the person so much, ready to have a family with the person, only to be told that he's got a wife and kids. That'll surely diminish your love. b. Catching him/her cheating - I know of a close family friend who a few days prior to their wedding catches her groom in bed with someone else! I don't this her love was not true since she was ready to marry the guy! c. Being abused physically or emotionally - I think if you really love the person you expect the person to respect you. Hitting or physical abuse is the worst thing a person would do, right? It could certainly diminish true love when you're beaten out of your senses. This and a lot more factors could clearly make the person say 'I love you No MORE!' and I can't blame them. I would too if those happened to me.

Actually, there isn't anything that is everlasting, hence, the same goes for love or hate. When a person goes into a relationship, it's often a true and sincere feeling put in. However, with time passing and many ongoings and situations happening every second, the feelings change as a result of how one reacts to happenings. This is why at times, the love deepens and yet at times, it diminishes. This is also why after hurting, a party feels less for the other but after reflections and with efforts to remedy and tolerance, after passing of time, the relationship/feelings deepens again. Feelings fluctuate like forex heeheehee.

I don't think so. Love can change as time goes on. We can love a person one year,two years,three years...... But after ten years , could you still say that i love her/him as before? I guess that i couldn't.

I think that this gets us to a core truth that, unfortunately, is tough to acknowledge and is therefore not really mentioned or talked about all that often, which is that love, on some level, is intellectual. I think that there is often initially physical attraction. Compatibility is considered out of that. However, after that, for it to ever be more that just lust or raw, animalistic physical attraction, one has to see if one connects with the other person on more levels. That's where the intellectual element comes in. Can you carry on a conversation? Do you connect on a spiritual, political, emotional level? All these questions -- even the last -- are answered on an intellectual level. Given that, absolutely people can fall out of love. I'm minimalizing the hell out of it, but in the same way that you can stop liking a particular actor, or realize you now like a color that you used to hate. These are intellectual changes. People romanticize love, and appropriately so. However, when we fail to see that there's more to it than just what Hollywood and Hallmark tell us there is, we lose sight of the big picture.

It is possible to love two or three at the same time. Depends on the energy of that person. But when he/she admitted that i love you no more, it only means the he/she have enough of you. Love in reality fades, just like life or our youth looks. We cant force people to love us and that's fact. It comes of our free will when we chose to love or loving. If we want to save our love, then selfless must come in and take out our pride and being selfish. Well time will tell.

ifa I agree it is sometimes nothing but plain old lust.same with a man lusting after two women , thats mere lust or passion to use a nicer word. but it is only physical, nothing more, he could care less after'he get his kicks what happens to her. real love cares deeply and stays caring and faithful. Real love cannot be easilyswayed, it is permanent' anything else is just physical passion and will not last.

love is very difficult. pure and sincere love may no longer exist. I do not believe in love. love just hurts. happiness because love only comes when the initial course, the love faded after time goes by. so I do not care about the name of love. for me love is a beautiful story but not the meaning,

Yes I do not love her any more, cause she did not love me. But I am happy. why? She lost one who loved her very much, and I lost one who never loved me. Who is the looser? Its not true that love can be happened one time and by one only. When you feel that somebody cares for you, thinks for you, then you will space in your heart for him/ her. That is known as love.

Yes I do not love her any more, cause she did not love me. But I am happy. why? She lost one who loved her very much, and I lost one who never loved me. Who is the looser? Its not true that love can be happened one time and by one only. When you feel that somebody cares for you, thinks for you, then you will space in your heart for him/ her. That is known as love.

Hi again ifa... like to paste here the whole chapter but I am not yet allowed because of my ranking but the first essence of the first verse is even the person have all the reaches of this world like money, fame, career, family, etc but have no love then this things is useless because love is not self-centered but a considerate one.

Hello there again! I think you are right as I consulted the love chapter(1 Corinthians 13)... love is different at all, love is awesome it does not hurt!