happy person.

India
May 10, 2010 1:11pm CST
Always life is too short.full of problem.Only you can make your self with happy.Some times you need to stop enjoy . can any one say how to be a happy person in your life ?
3 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
7 Jun 10
Well understanding the life is short and worrying doesnot help. So live the short life with more happy and joy
• India
9 Jun 10
life may be short. but try to enjoy every inch of life.
@zhangxia (87)
• China
12 May 10
happy is just a mood that controlled by yourself .whatever life you live ,you can always be happy .you can smile to problems ,adversitys ,and bad conditions that you have to face .of course ,you can laugh to joy ,happiness .you comforted with this .
• India
13 May 10
Thanks Zhangxia for your response.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
10 May 10
You and you alone can make yourself happy, no matter where you are in life you are responsible for your point of view. I came to understand this during a time when I was in terrible pain. No matter how much I hurt I was happy, it may have been that I was able to self hypnotise myself away from the pain. I really don't know how I did it but I do remember making up my mind to be happy through the pain. I have always known that my body was not who I am and that life never ends, things just change and in knowing this nothing that this reality can bring can change my basic happiness. I hope this makes sense, it's very hard to explain. Now the question is if I was in Haiti and my whole family and life were gone, could I still be happy. Of course you couldn't say you were happy about the situation but I do believe in some part of your being your could still be happy. Just being alive for one thing.