Assurance

For me that's the very hard thing in a relationship since I believe that assurance doesn't exist. We all know that there is no permanent in this world, so even if you are so sure about the feelings of the girl for you, still it can't be considered as an assurance or security since humans are inconsistent.

one is you have to build each other's trust and loyalty. during the season of courtship, you have to assess already if that girl is worthy enough of your love, time and effort. if this girl study hard, works hard, love her parents and siblings, helpful, respect her friends. you can also choose whom to love or not.

..hi.. I'm already married and based from my personal experience, you can never know if the person you're in a relationship is the one you will end up with.. because ending up together is something that is decided by both parties.. when you or when both of you start to realize that you can accept each other for who you are notwithstanding the weaknesses that you have, that means you could end up together.. I guess you heart will tell you if your girlfriend is true to you.. listen to your heart and follow your instincts.. its very hard to determine the person's feelings since we can't see what is in their hearts.. that is why in entering to a relationship, one must always be ready to accept defeat.. but the heart should always hope for the best also.. relationship grounded with false suspicions would definitely lead to break up.. Maybe, what you can do is to be faithful and to love.. if the person will realize the great love you have for her, maybe it will give her the idea that you are the best for her.. not all relaitonships end a happy ending..

Hi mhine, welcome to mylot! Well, the only way to know whether your partner is true to you is when your instinct tells you that she is telling the truth to you. There are actually many red flags that a person gives out which tells she isn't in love with you totally. One of them is when she walks all over you as soon as you give yourself to her. A girl can either nurture your love or totally take advantage of it. The stability in her psychology will answer it best to you. For instance, if she shows tantrum and demands more from you it is a sign that she sees you as an object. But if she respects you fully then it tells that she loves you for who you are. I love you, visions on marriage and no sign of breakup are some of the things that tell that your relationship is serious. If they do not exist in a relationship then you cannot take it seriously.