Husband Issues
By icequeen
@icequeen (2840)
Canada
8 responses
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
11 May 10
By all means you should let her know right away. This way she can confront him on this. He may play the "I didn't do that" "your friend is crazy" So if nothing else set him up to show proof that he is like this. This way your friend will have her own real proof. Just depends on how much she trusts you compared to this man(if you want to call him that)
Truth always comes out.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
12 May 10
umm it would be a good idea to let us know how your doing and what you thought of the responses here. It helps us to help you.
Hope your day is going well with a
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
11 May 10
It depends on where he kisses you and if it is the custom in his country or background. Kissing on the checks is all right, but if it is a long drawn out French kiss or if he makes other advances, you should try to avoid him or protest in such a way that he feels embarrassed and knows you are not that sort of a girl. The wife would understand. And you would not need to tell her.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
11 May 10
I would definitly tell my friend if her hubby tried to kiss me! I mean, you're friends with the person because you can trust them and they can trust you. When you have trust there's honesty as well.. Those two features go hand in hand, like two peas in a pod. She deserves to know that her husband is a cheater and I'm sure that he's tried this before on someone else just to see how far he's gotten. It's the challenge that he gets off on.
Take care
@khalida (1126)
• India
11 May 10
whoa!! that's a very tricky situation to be in!
well i think i would warn the husband to back off for his own good or he would be in deep trouble! i wouldn't like to say this to my friend as she would be hurt and embarrassed by his husband's actions and i would never wnt that to happen!
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
11 May 10
Nice question huh..
I experienced this before. My friend's husband tried not only to kissing me but he even courted me knowing that my friend was 4 months pregnant by that time. Since my friend is pregnant that time, I decided to keep it a secret but I made sure to stay away from his husband as much as possible. I told my friend about this 3 months after she gave birth. I even showed her the text messages of her husband including my responses so she won't think of something bad about me. I told her to keep track of her husband, he may be cheating her with some other girls out there. She was very thankful of what I did and she even told me to help her figure out if her husband is hiding something from her.
After 3 years, she caught her husband with someone and they ended up nothing. They separated and her husband is now enjoying his life with different girls out there..
So bad!
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
11 May 10
I totally agree with sridarshika, you should tell your friend and hopefully she will take action. This kind of behavior is uncalled for..
@screwdriver (643)
• Philippines
11 May 10
I would tell her. he is my friends husband and why would he kiss me. and i value our friendship than kissing her husband back. lol