can we really find unconditional love in this life?

For unconditional love, get a dog. Human love is a very complicated thing and unconditional human love is only found in fiction. As a Mother I would say that Motherly love comes as close as anything. I may not always like my children but I do love them and would protect them with my life if needed.

I really don't understand what your talking about but can say that at 62 years old I'm still looking for that unconditional love. I think the only true unconitional love comes from our pets. Now that I think of it....I get unconditional love from my kids too!