Two very difficult words? THANK YOU!!

@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
May 11, 2010 12:59pm CST
Stupid, but i want to know. No matter what your culture, tradition or rules are in the house. Do you always say ''thank you'' for your breakfast, lunch and dinner? How many of you really do it? I was taught to always thank the one who cooked, no matter who it is. Don't be shy. Tell me of your bad manners. TATA.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 May 10
I'm the one cooking. I guess I could thank myself. :-)
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 May 10
Will ribs and scalloped potatoes do you?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Now your talking. But, the ribs ain't pork is it??
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Oh for Pete's sake Dawny. Cook for me tomorrow and i will try and thank you, okay. TATA.
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I am always honest with you, you know that.... and saying that words in that times is very rare to me... I do not know... but I am always thanking not the one who cook, but the one who gave us that everyday.... I am always saying 'grasya' in other words, I am like thanking God for the food...
• Philippines
12 May 10
I know, I also thanked them, specially on special occasions.... how about that?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Okay, but why only special occasions??
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Hello Prime. Well, no offense but God did not do the cooking, you know? He gave the food, but the one who cooked it, need to ne thanked. TATA.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
11 May 10
I suppose I can never thank my mom enough for all the things that she have done for me and my family. Alright, sentimental aside, in my society, thank you is sometimes not often uttered and I think it should be promoted more. In fact, there have been slogans and banners to promote this years before, I think...the Courtesy campaign, they call it. And in my language thanks= terima kasih.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
14 May 10
I appreciate you using the word, Saph..you are a sweet girl deep down. That's so true, if only more people can say thank you all the time, the world will be a better place. But as long as there's sincerity in everything we do, should be quite alright...the thank you can be shown in actions too...
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Hello Zed. I think the whole world has this problem. No one really thank anyone anymore. Such a shame, though. But, ''terima kasih'', has a nice ring to it. Thanx. TATA.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 May 10
Thank you Zed. You are such a nice and sweet guy. TATA.
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@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
11 May 10
In my country and many families if someone gets up from the table saying "kiss your hand for food" one simple "thank you" is for unknown people...example: store or restaurant when I am younger was a little poetry "food was tasty and beautiful housewife is" (in my native language words rhyme:)
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Hi sweetie. I like the ''kiss your hand for food'' saying. Maybe i should try that one? Thanx for having manners. TATA.
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
12 May 10
saphrina when you do that ...we need to know:))
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
12 May 10
moon a tip maybe ...a kiss:))
• Malaysia
11 May 10
hey dear... i'm so proud my momma taught me to use the P's and Q's. That's the Please and Thank You's for those who may not understand it really isn't difficult to say thank you every once in a while. and it's even gratifying to say it and really mean it. sometimes some people go out of their way to do something for us, even if that thing they do may seem trivial, it just seems right to say thank you.. if someone holds open the door to the shop for me, i say thank you. if someone let's me take the 1st taxicab, i say thank you. if someone made me dinner, i'd say thank you. if you respond to my post and i see it in time, i try to say thank you. if my loved one gave me a pleasant surprise, i'd be thanking her all night i do personally feel that if i do it often, the good habit can rub off on others too..the P's & Q's i mean
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Hey sweetie. Nice to hear you have manners. Before i go on, thank you, forrespnding ro my discussion. Now that that is out of the way. Taxicab, got it, door, fot it. Thanking someone all night. Really, how much energy do you have?? TATA.
• Malaysia
11 May 10
'...and i thank the Almighty for blessing me with this thankful energy..' i keep doing that each morning, and i'm all peppy throughout the day, and all zesty at night too
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Peppy and zesty? Okay, whatever that means, but i had a good laugh. THANX.
@Aitrita (145)
• Switzerland
14 May 10
not for breakfast, as I usually have "my thing" to eat.so I prepare it myself I was also thaught to thank. only sometimes when I'm in a bad mood, or had a discussion with mum before eating, I skip saying it as a sign of anger x)
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 May 10
Sweetie that is very bad for your health, you know. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 May 10
Anger and eating sweetie. TATA.
@Aitrita (145)
• Switzerland
14 May 10
what's bad for my health dear?:)
• India
12 May 10
well, after reading through most, ( I am yet to start commenting in each of your responders') all I can add to is, a very very very big, THANK YOU dear sugar candy. You made us all, oh, atleast me... remember our basic duty of gratitude. I had once attended a sermon, where I was told to practice : 1. Unconditional LOVE, which also involves Forgetting the hitters, and forgiving them 2. Not to JUDGE anyone, on any deeds/behavior and, 3. Attitude of GRATITUDE. . Truly, our culture is so strong in such foundations, that we are ever thankful to GOD, almighty, for providing us a chance to serve the needy. At the same time, we have a practice of paying our respects and saying THANKYOU to the one, who receives something from us. In cash or Kind. That is our system. But, .. I think, I am at least 3 out of 5 here.
• India
12 May 10
thanks dear! Hope to live up to the standard fixed on me. Rather than fixed, the appropriate word would be GIFTED upon me. Love to be involved.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Sweetie, as you were so nice and honest and reminding me of other things, i will give you a 4. How's that?? Thanx. TATA.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Love to have you around sweetie.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
12 May 10
Hey saphrina! I almost find it sad that this question has to be asked, don't you? It is just such an automatic reflex to me as I am sure it is to you! Even though, I am usually the one who is cooking the meal, sometimes my bf washes the dishes afterwards and I am always grateful and say thank you! He always thanks me for cooking (and if he doesn't I make sure to remind him too!)lol I don't know why this should be such a difficult thing to do and should require any amount of thinking at all!
• India
12 May 10
opal26 And, please listen !!! Follow the tip of dear saphrina also, remember to keep me alerted and informed, just before you BOX his ears. I am a medical professional, and will help you FREE!!!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Opal sweetie, let me tell you a ittle secret. The rich and famous don't even know what the words means, less saying it. But, i am glad that you remind your bf, now and then. Box his ears, that will make him remember. Thanx. TATA.
@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
I was always taught to say thank you when receiving a gift from another person of any form. Even when I accidentally bumped into someone the word is also spoken.
@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
13 May 10
absolutely, it is counted as a gift. We should be grateful for what we get in this life.That habit was taught by my parents to always say thank you to all people without distinction of race and nation if they are nice to us.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 May 10
I agree sweetie. If they rae nice to us. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Sweetie, does this count for dinner as well?? TATA.
• United States
11 May 10
Actually we usually always say "thank you" in my household, too, because that is how we were raised. It was really difficult at first for my husband, because they never even had to say "please" or anything like that, so "thank you" was really foreign to him. He liked the fact that we are that considerate of each other, though, and he was glad that we are raising our children to be polite like that, too.
• United States
11 May 10
My mom always said that we were taught to have manners but whether or not we decide to use them once we are grown is our own choice - she did all she could do by teaching them to us. I guess that she must have done a pretty good job, though, because they come automatically to me now. It is really nice when those two little words can brighten someone's day, and I have seen it happen where just a little kindness and common courtesy like saying "thank you" can turn a grumpy face into a bright smile.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
I agree sweetie. We are the only ones who has to remember that. And it can change a grumpy face, that i have experienced. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Hi sweetie. Now that is what i like to hear. People can learn something, at least. And it is nice to hear that there are some children who are raised to be polite. Thanx. TATA.
@eysiojo23 (141)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I honestly admit that I don't thank that much. Sometimes, I am a little bit shy of saying that word. But sometimes, if I really feel very good, I thank every good things even bad ones that is happening that day. Thanks to you for starting this discussion and made me realize that thanking is a must. Take care
• Philippines
19 May 10
Wow, I earned best response. It was my first time. Thank you so much. I was shocked.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 May 10
Thanx sweetie. Nothing to feel shy about. Just say it, you will see the difference. TATA.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I'm used to saying "Thank You!" a lot. More of because of my Mom's influence. I even thank my baby's Nanny sometimes whenever I ask her to do something. I even thank the cab driver for bringing me home safe or taking me anywhere I have to go safe. I was taught to always thank people for whatever they do for me.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
And that is how we do it sweetie. Thanx, i appreciate all your thank you's. TATA.
@tolted (190)
12 May 10
ladyslipper, you are just like me. I say thank you to ALMOST everything. It is a good habit to say thank you. :)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Yes. It is indeed a good habit to say thank you all the time. :) Whenever someone says thank you to me it means a lot and I feel so much appreciated. That's why I know that whenever I say thank you to other people it could mean a lot to them. :) Have a nice day...
@tolted (190)
12 May 10
well I have been the one doing the cooking so I do not say thank you to myself:) On a more serious note, I was brought up to say thank you so if someone cooks for me I do say thank you. I also like it wen my hubby says thank u after he eats MY food. tee hee!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Thats nice sweetie. Whenever he just maybe forget to thank you send him to bed, WITHOUT dinner. That should do the trick. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
At least you are a good cook sweetie. And that makes both of you happy. TATA.
@tolted (190)
12 May 10
LOL. Sometimes he doesn't say thank you but most times he does and tells me I am the best cook in the world (yah yah). I guess he is just trying to motivate me to keep cooking :)
• United States
11 May 10
Atleast we're from the same planet. In our house and when dealing with others, the most important words are: Thank You, I'm sorry, Excuse me, You're welcome, bless you, that's ok, you're forgiven, how may we help you? Manners can go a long way and make a big difference in one's life.
• India
12 May 10
HAHA. actually, when you are able to be properly thankful, there should be no occassion, where you should have to use the words sorry, or excuse me. Doors open for you on AUTO MODE, PEOPLE are more friendly with you. Always, being thankful. and, oh YES. Thanks for the love and tenderness showered on this topic. Gemini68nOhio .. . OUR sugar candy is getting juicier, and tastier.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 May 10
Well, if i could only thank the door then. Sweetie, that would look stupid, wouldn't it?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Thank you sweetie. Maybe the others are not from this planet, then. What a darn shame. TATA.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
17 May 10
Hi Sweetie, I say thank you when it needs to be said, like if I am at someone's House having a Coffee I will say thank you for the Coffee, both my Son and Daughter watch their Manners to
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
17 May 10
Hello Gabs. I am glad to hear that all of you have such good manners. How nice. TATA.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 May 10
Admittedly I am not always one to say thank you though I do try to say thank you as it's polite to do so. Or if not thank you then "that was good" something that shows the appreciation you have for the person taking the time out to make the meal for not just themselves but for the whole family.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
12 May 10
Yes maybe I should work more on saying "Thank You that was good" instead of one or the other. Though I am sure they know it is appreciated, it's better to say Thank you and much more polite as well.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 May 10
Hi sweetie, at least your honest. I am sure that thank you and that was good can almost be associated with each other. But, i am sure you will remember it next time. Thanx. TATA.
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• India
20 May 10
LOL i was in teaching for over four decades, and now i attend seminars, workshops, lectures, so this 'please'. 'thank you', 'did you get my point' has become my pet word.. Regarding bad manners, i am not aware of, but i am strict in administration as principal and head of department.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 May 10
How nice sweetie. Four decades? Wow, that is so cool. Thanx. TATA.
• Philippines
13 May 10
Saying thank you is already a part of me. At home, at work, anywhere. Its a way of appreciation and recognizing their effort - little or big. It helps uplift the spirit. Thank the people in your life who add value. be kind and generous in your thanks and the results will always be favorable.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 May 10
Thanx sweetie. And you have stated it so nicely. TATA.
• United Arab Emirates
13 May 10
Back in the Philippines, I'm not used in saying thank you to whoever prepared the food because once you eat the food it's already like an unspoken gratitude. But ever since I work here in Dubai and have to live with others who are not related to me and has a different nationality,little by little it became a habit so as just to have a better relationship with them and to prevent any misunderstandings. I just don't know if I'll be able to apply that again when I come back to the Philippines.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 May 10
You will be able to apply them, sweetie. Once you are used to using them, it won't leave you. Enjoy. Thanx. TATA.
• Indonesia
15 May 10
honestly i seldom say "thank you". easier for us to complain about the food than show any thank to one who have cooked it
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
15 May 10
Maybe you should try thanking the cook, than complaining about it. Thanx. TATA.