Two very difficult words? THANK YOU!!
By saphrina
@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
May 11, 2010 12:59pm CST
Stupid, but i want to know. No matter what your culture, tradition or rules are in the house. Do you always say ''thank you'' for your breakfast, lunch and dinner? How many of you really do it? I was taught to always thank the one who cooked, no matter who it is. Don't be shy. Tell me of your bad manners. TATA.
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57 responses
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 May 10
I'm the one cooking. I guess I could thank myself. :-)
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I am always honest with you, you know that.... and saying that words in that times is very rare to me... I do not know... but I am always thanking not the one who cook, but the one who gave us that everyday.... I am always saying 'grasya' in other words, I am like thanking God for the food...
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I know, I also thanked them, specially on special occasions.... how about that?
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
11 May 10
I suppose I can never thank my mom enough for all the things that she have done for me and my family. Alright, sentimental aside, in my society, thank you is sometimes not often uttered and I think it should be promoted more. In fact, there have been slogans and banners to promote this years before, I think...the Courtesy campaign, they call it. And in my language thanks= terima kasih.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
14 May 10
I appreciate you using the word, Saph..you are a sweet girl deep down. That's so true, if only more people can say thank you all the time, the world will be a better place. But as long as there's sincerity in everything we do, should be quite alright...the thank you can be shown in actions too...
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
11 May 10
In my country and many families if someone gets up from the table saying
"kiss your hand for food"
one simple "thank you" is for unknown people...example: store or restaurant
when I am younger was a little poetry
"food was tasty and beautiful housewife is" (in my native language words rhyme:)
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
11 May 10
hey dear...
i'm so proud my momma taught me to use the P's and Q's. That's the Please and Thank You's for those who may not understand
it really isn't difficult to say thank you every once in a while. and it's even gratifying to say it and really mean it. sometimes some people go out of their way to do something for us, even if that thing they do may seem trivial, it just seems right to say thank you..
if someone holds open the door to the shop for me, i say thank you. if someone let's me take the 1st taxicab, i say thank you. if someone made me dinner, i'd say thank you. if you respond to my post and i see it in time, i try to say thank you. if my loved one gave me a pleasant surprise, i'd be thanking her all night
i do personally feel that if i do it often, the good habit can rub off on others too..the P's & Q's i mean
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
11 May 10
'...and i thank the Almighty for blessing me with this thankful energy..'
i keep doing that each morning, and i'm all peppy throughout the day, and all zesty at night too
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
12 May 10
well, after reading through most, ( I am yet to start commenting in each of your responders') all I can add to is, a very very very big,
THANK YOU dear sugar candy.
You made us all, oh, atleast me... remember our basic duty of gratitude.
I had once attended a sermon, where I was told to practice : 1. Unconditional LOVE, which also involves Forgetting the hitters, and forgiving them 2. Not to JUDGE anyone, on any deeds/behavior and,
3. Attitude of GRATITUDE. .
Truly, our culture is so strong in such foundations, that we are ever thankful to GOD, almighty, for providing us a chance to serve the needy.
At the same time, we have a practice of paying our respects and saying THANKYOU to the one, who receives something from us. In cash or Kind.
That is our system. But, .. I think, I am at least 3 out of 5 here.
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
12 May 10
thanks dear! Hope to live up to the standard fixed on me.
Rather than fixed, the appropriate word would be GIFTED upon me.
Love to be involved.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
12 May 10
Hey saphrina! I almost find it sad that this question has to
be asked, don't you? It is just such an automatic reflex to
me as I am sure it is to you! Even though, I am usually the one
who is cooking the meal, sometimes my bf washes the dishes
afterwards and I am always grateful and say thank you! He always
thanks me for cooking (and if he doesn't I make sure to remind
him too!)lol I don't know why this should be such a difficult
thing to do and should require any amount of thinking at all!
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
12 May 10
opal26 And, please listen !!! Follow the tip of dear saphrina
also, remember to keep me alerted and informed, just before you BOX his ears.
I am a medical professional, and will help you FREE!!!
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
11 May 10
Actually we usually always say "thank you" in my household, too, because that is how we were raised. It was really difficult at first for my husband, because they never even had to say "please" or anything like that, so "thank you" was really foreign to him. He liked the fact that we are that considerate of each other, though, and he was glad that we are raising our children to be polite like that, too.
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
11 May 10
My mom always said that we were taught to have manners but whether or not we decide to use them once we are grown is our own choice - she did all she could do by teaching them to us. I guess that she must have done a pretty good job, though, because they come automatically to me now. It is really nice when those two little words can brighten someone's day, and I have seen it happen where just a little kindness and common courtesy like saying "thank you" can turn a grumpy face into a bright smile.
@eysiojo23 (141)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I honestly admit that I don't thank that much. Sometimes, I am a little bit shy of saying that word. But sometimes, if I really feel very good, I thank every good things even bad ones that is happening that day. Thanks to you for starting this discussion and made me realize that thanking is a must.
Take care
@eysiojo23 (141)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Wow, I earned best response. It was my first time. Thank you so much. I was shocked.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I'm used to saying "Thank You!" a lot. More of because of my Mom's influence. I even thank my baby's Nanny sometimes whenever I ask her to do something. I even thank the cab driver for bringing me home safe or taking me anywhere I have to go safe.
I was taught to always thank people for whatever they do for me.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Yes. It is indeed a good habit to say thank you all the time. :) Whenever someone says thank you to me it means a lot and I feel so much appreciated. That's why I know that whenever I say thank you to other people it could mean a lot to them. :)
Have a nice day...
@Gemini68nOhio (134)
• United States
11 May 10
Atleast we're from the same planet. In our house and when dealing with others, the most important words are: Thank You, I'm sorry, Excuse me, You're welcome, bless you, that's ok, you're forgiven, how may we help you? Manners can go a long way and make a big difference in one's life.
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
12 May 10
HAHA.
actually, when you are able to be properly thankful, there should be no occassion, where you should have to use the words sorry, or excuse me.
Doors open for you on AUTO MODE, PEOPLE are more friendly with you. Always, being thankful. and, oh YES.
Thanks for the love and tenderness showered on this topic. Gemini68nOhio .. .
OUR sugar candy is getting juicier, and tastier.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 May 10
Admittedly I am not always one to say thank you though I do try to say thank you as it's polite to do so. Or if not thank you then "that was good" something that shows the appreciation you have for the person taking the time out to make the meal for not just themselves but for the whole family.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
12 May 10
Yes maybe I should work more on saying "Thank You that was good" instead of one or the other. Though I am sure they know it is appreciated, it's better to say Thank you and much more polite as well.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
20 May 10
LOL i was in teaching for over four decades, and now i attend seminars, workshops, lectures, so this 'please'. 'thank you', 'did you get my point' has become my pet word.. Regarding bad manners, i am not aware of, but i am strict in administration as principal and head of department..
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Prof
@Lucky_Day (11)
• Philippines
13 May 10
Saying thank you is already a part of me. At home, at work, anywhere. Its a way of appreciation and recognizing their effort - little or big. It helps uplift the spirit.
Thank the people in your life who add value. be kind and generous in your thanks and the results will always be favorable.
@opalyn1029 (2)
• United Arab Emirates
13 May 10
Back in the Philippines, I'm not used in saying thank you to whoever prepared the food because once you eat the food it's already like an unspoken gratitude. But ever since I work here in Dubai and have to live with others who are not related to me and has a different nationality,little by little it became a habit so as just to have a better relationship with them and to prevent any misunderstandings. I just don't know if I'll be able to apply that again when I come back to the Philippines.
@aloysiusprama (15)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
honestly i seldom say "thank you". easier for us to complain about the food than show any thank to one who have cooked it