3rd Party Issue

Third party... That is one of the many reasons why most of the couples part ways... Third party are home wrecker. They don't care much about the people involve, they don't mind even if they would hit other people... What they care most is their happiness and their "selfish love" for the guy or girl...

I can relate on this topic. Well, the story was like I have a 5 year more relationship and engaged when I met this single guy and never thought to love more and a reason for me to choose and decide eventually. I am at guilt and was really torn between my fiancee and the new one. Until such time when I have finally decide to choose the new one and break up with my fiancee, it was too late. My new bf told me that a girl had just answered him. Consequently, I was the first then became the second priority. It was painful because the situation turned sides now. Too hurting that i cannot demand my rights as the original. It is hurting that I have to share time with the other girl. As of the moment, I cannot tell myself if I have to regret with my decision. I admit I was so stupid to let my fiancee go, but I don't regret loving the new one. Relationships are so ironic. Love and pain I think really goes together because that's the essence of it. Loving is a sacrifice.

yeah, this is really a painful reality in relationship break-up. a third party causing the separation of couples and creating another couple at the expense of the an established one. i think it is not often good in the end for both couples. especially if the break-up is not negotiated or discussed upon by couple. if it can be a smooth transition, then things can be fine.

3rd Party are relationship wrecker. But i think their will be no 3rd party if one wont allow it. Their will be no 3rd party if the person love his/her partner.

ouch. so sad to hear that. i currently have a boyfriend to happens to be a play boy. he has three to four girlfriends , worst than yours right? well, that was he is before i had him . there are guys who can't keep on collecting girls they often call them toys for joys. they seek for partners who will more likely to accept them from what they really are. some the reason why they seek the attention of others is that the partner maybe lacking something and couldn't give that's why. they want someone who will make them feel secure of the relationship. i think the only them that you can finally say that you found the right one is when you stop looking for more.