Backstabber is enemy
By 7thheaven
@7thheaven (95)
Indonesia
May 12, 2010 10:01am CST
I have close friend and always share everything with him. I always tell him about my problem in relationship of course with everyone who i like. I believe him so much. but now i know that back of me, he tell everything to my enemy. What should i do? Should i stay away from him?
5 responses
@seventhblue (104)
• Philippines
12 May 10
That's so mean if that is really the truth. My advice is you ask him first. Confront him if what you have been hearing is true. After you have known everything, that's the time when you decide. You might never know if someone is just trying to destroy your relationship with him.
@7thheaven (95)
• Indonesia
13 May 10
I've asked him. but he din't say anything. From his behavior, i know that he just lie to me. There are some other friend say that he often receive message from my enemy. I think nobody will know that secret except my friend or i tell it to another. I never to say my secret again to him cause i feel dissapointed.
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
12 May 10
That is really bad i had a friend like that once and they seemed to relish in everyones misery aswell as talk about them behind their backs.I think since i had learnt that about a friend i have tried to stay away from them aswell as if they have tried to ring me i ignore their call and if i am ever out and they are about i say i have got to go as i need to be some where.If a person stabs you in the back once they are going to do it again and again.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I wouldn't believe someone who says he's receiving message from an enemy until I get to read that message myself. Even science has to be applied with friendship. Do not believe anything until you have proof. Many so called friends are the ultimate liars. Your close friend just feel heavy and down and now he's being accused of something he did not do? What idiots are they?
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
12 May 10
Yes, i think that you should stay away from him. He is not to be trusted and he is a traitor. But before everything else i think you should speak to him and check if everything is true. And if it is true, forgive him, but don't trust him anymore. Prove him wrong by still being nice to him. Don't fight back by stabbing him at his back. It will just make the problem even bigger.
