would you forgive your friend who are your backstabber???

I will educate her not to do against me once I heard it then she will know what I will going to do with her. It is not a good friend that backstabbed on you she is not a good one to be called like that. In this case I will go away from her, I will not trust her anymore. Ignore the things she will do and I'll be watchful to her ever. I also have experienced like this situation now that I know that she did all about that I will not treat her as a close person but a bad one.

I would say I would have to think about it. It would probably take me awhile to forgive, because, to me, that would be a form of betrayal. And I would be mad a long time with them for that reason. Forgiveness would come eventually once the anger has subsided.

..hi.. I had once a friend who did that.. and she is still my friend right now.. however, I'd say that it depends on how grave your best friend has committed.. In my case, it was just about jealousy that she tried to ruin me in my class.. I just let the issue pass and I didn't even confront her because I knew that she is already sorry.. but for other kinds of back stabbing, I'd say that I couldn't easily forgive somebody whom I trusted the most yet betrayed me.. I may forgive that person as the days pass but I can't befriend her anymore.. it all really depends on the offense committed.. after all, everybody deserves a second chance since we all commit mistakes..

I forgive him/her but i`ll NEVER be his/her friend again. it happened to me when i was at college..

i think i would not dare forgive him/her primarily because there is no such person which is called a friend who would back-stab his other friend.

yes of course if he would be sorry of what he have done.. and promise not to do it again.. whats the use of being bestfriends if cant even forgive if he says sorry from his heart..

yeah, it happened when I was at college. A friend told my mom that some of my best friends were backstabbing me, while she couldn`t prove anything. We were about to confront her with them and my mom, especially my best friends, but I told the not to make the situation even worse. And finally, my mom realized that she is not a good person.

I can forgive a backstabber friend but to trust her again will be the hardest part.

Never, a man who is a backstabber can't be called bestfriends, because a genuine friend will never do anything that might hurt u!

Hi 920212 It happened to us a friend also hurt our feelings. Like I have always been saying life is too short, we should enjoy every minute of our existence. Let us learn to forgive past mistakes and move forward. Forgive your friend and move on.

We just did. There was this friend of ours who did exactly that but we just literally accepted her with open arms. Que sera sera...bury the hatchet and live for today. Forgiveness is a virtue my friend.