Do you think you're a good person?

@slovenc1 (2089)
Slovenia
May 13, 2010 4:41am CST
It's vital you have a good relationship with yourself. Sure you might say i'm a little chubby and too lazy or something like that. But all in all are you happy with yourself, do you think you are smart? If you are strong you can cope with life better and some self esteem is always good. Everyone does some mistakes in their lives but all in all how would you rate yourself on scale to 10? I'd say i'm calm and smart and humble and i'd give my self an 8. If one doesn't have self respect how will others see him... Feel free to share your thoughts, have a great day!
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17 responses
rizzu87
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
13 May 10
Well what i feel is that i am good but some people are kind of jealous from me. They dont want me to be the way i am. they take advantage of me being a good person. I am doing my best to keep my friends and other people i know happy and go the way they want me to go. But i think in this world this world the kind of attitude i have towards others does not work. I have to change a bit. Anyway i think i would rate m self 7 ot of 10.
rizzu87
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
13 May 10
yeah that is what i wonder, people dont favor in return. thank you for such a kind advice, i just said that i have to change in hurry. i will never change and never become like others. thank you!
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
Sadly in this world most people don't return the favors and only use you even if you give everything. And thank you for actually rating yourself. And don't change and become like others. Even if everyone uses you you are still the only one who is fair and knows he didn't do anything wrong. Have a great day, stay true to yourself!
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
I'm glad you won't and i wish you good luck
winniewang
@winniewang (3)
• China
14 May 10
hi,slovenc1, i give myself 9. O(n_n)O~ i am sure that i am very good with my work, with my family, and my friends, but not very good with my boy friend! He say i was strict with him~~~~(_
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
Good to hear you are happy with your work and family and friends. Being in a relationship is a full time "job" so no wonder you make some mistakes from time to time it's normal. Sometimes being strict helps a relationship. Thanks for rating yourself, good luck to you!
sender621
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
14 May 10
I would like to believe that we all have a good person inside of us. Sometimes that person shines like the sun. For others, the good person is struggling to be seen and heard.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
You're wright, i believe that two and i think everyone shines from time to time if he has the opportunity to do so. Thanks, have a great day
zedrick_11
@zedrick_11 (931)
• Philippines
14 May 10
i think so.. because all the person that are beside me are happy to have me.. so i think i'm a good person for them wish that they'll not just pretending when i'm around.. :(
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
Anyone who pretends will soon be figured out and they don't deserve you as a friend if they aren't honest with you.
ericpapasit
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I think I'm not better than any body else... because if you think highly to ourselves then the tendencies are you will pop up.... But if you also think negatively to yourselves then you limit yourself... the best thing is be normal...
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
You said it! Being too self centered is bad in long term and being to hard on yourself is also not ok. The best is the middle and i see you are in that stable middle. Thanks for pointing out that it's not good to be too self confident.
rhodalyn
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
14 May 10
uhm,5!!i know im not that good..i get mad easily..im frank also..utter words which should not be..but i have a lot of friends..they even call me as ms.congeniality..hehe
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
Finally someone who doesn't think he's very good...if are people would be that good world would be a different place. Don't get me wrong i'm not saying you're bad i just like that you did write something here even if you think you're only five. Good to hear you have many friends and i think almost every person gets mad for no good reason from time to time. It's just not healthy to be very quick tempered. My brother is bit quick tempered and there was this one time he and i were setting this shelf in the basement and he was hitting it with rubber hammer and the thing didn't stand straight so he got angry and threw the hammer into the floor and it bounced to the sealing and nearly hit him. Anyway thanks again for rating yourself
Dominique
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 May 10
Well, I'd certainly like to think that I'm a good person. I try to be a good person, or least as good of a person as I can be. But I think that it's somewhat difficult to say exactly whether I'm a good person or not.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
It's difficult to rate yourself maybe because you are also modest and don't want to rate yourself to high even if you are as good as it gets. But if you try to be good i believe you are good. Thanks for your comment
allamgirl
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
13 May 10
it's kinda hard to rate myself on a scale of one to ten. but i like to think that i am a good person over all. i'm not always happy with myself but most of the times i am satisfied with who i am. i think i am a good person because i am a considerate person and is the sort of person who always think of others.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
It's always hard to rate things and especially yourself so i understand. It's nice of you to think of others and be considerable. Thanks for sharing
1anurag1
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
13 May 10
i think yes i am a good person. reason is very simple.what i think that no body is perfect in the world and so do i. i am not perfect in being good. i do bad things too. but i am not happy when ever i do. but those are very rare and in compulsion some time. i could not muster courage to hurt some one, and due to these things i am near a good human being.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 May 10
Thanks for sharing, it's good that you feel bad if you do bad things so you learn not to do them again. And i'm happy you can't hurt people, i can't either.
avimra
@avimra (456)
• India
13 May 10
Hmm, yeah! I am a good person,but sometimes in some aspects, i would feel that I am not doing right. I will recognize my faults myself. But very soon, I will try to correct my mistakes. So, I cant say that I am a complete good person. At the same time not a bad person too.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
Fair enough avimra, it's always good if one can confess to himself that he didn't do the wright thing. I don't like it when people know they are wrong or misbehave and never apologize or even admit they were wrong. Tnx for your contribution to the discussion, have a great day
nehmer
@nehmer (607)
• Philippines
13 May 10
hi slovenc1, Do you think you're a good person? What i think in my past few years in this world. that is 22 years ^^ i believe that i am that good person in fact. i am not a perfect person.. hehehe the only thing that keeps me good is everyday i obey my parents waahahaha.. it depends on the situation... only God is a good person.. and i never have found one hahaha!!!
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
I don't believe god exist and if he does things got out of control for him with all that's happening. Anyway nobody's perfect, tnx for comment
kirthy
@kirthy (383)
• India
13 May 10
yes i am good. this confidence will keep me as good. even i may be have some bad things like laziness , loose talker, i like myself very much.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
Hehe i like myself two, nice to hear you are good.
kenneth101383
@kenneth101383 (908)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I cannot say that I am good. Goodness should not be based on one self but it all depends on what others say unto you.
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
You're wright that the things others say are important and tell a lot about someone but others might also lie to show you in bed light if they don't like you or envy you. Tnx for comment.
lomns98
@lomns98 (110)
• United States
13 May 10
I guess some of ous can be good or bad. but I tend to view people as either really good deep down inside and a good person even if they do some things wrong and I tend to look at some pepole as evil if they don't really have any good intentions unconciously
slovenc1
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
13 May 10
I also believe everyone is good inside so i don't judge too soon. Tnx for your comment
apples99
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
14 May 10
That's kinda of an awkward question to answer because I dont see myself the way someone else would, but honestly I think that I'm a pretty good person even though I'm definitely not perfect, but I have a good heart and wanted to do whats fair and right, though I still have a lot to learn, but I cant rate myself from a scale of 1 to 10.
myzire72
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
13 May 10
I am a neutral person, neither good nor bad all the time. I believe most humans are like that. We humans are a very sophisticated species, and I really find it difficult to give myself an overall rating. Anyway, all I can say is I can be a 9 on some days and 2 on others, but most of the time it's a 5.
umit_umit
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
13 May 10
well its like the half half kinds sometimes and sometimes 60 40 ratio of good and bad!but where as the personality regarding vive and vit=rtues comes that is intact and noe ill i have done with anyone so far i am concerned!!rest the normal grind!it goes like that only!you cant be perfect in all the fields!