If you thought your spouse or bf/gf was cheating what would you do?
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
6 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
13 May 10
been there and done it. yes i did used to think she was cheating on me, but wasnt sure until the guy brother told my friend who told me, and yes i did confront her on this and she was honest about it, it took me along time to forgive her for it.
but i did and we've been together for 26 yrs and married 25 yrs. but if she would do it again i would be like she just have to go. i wont fight him for her,
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
13 May 10
So you have been together 26 years ..how long into your relationship
did this happen? Were you upset .? Did you separate at any time or
get counseling?
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
13 May 10
it was like 10 yrs i thinks, upset i was so mad. no we didnt but we did get counseling. now we get along great.
she was more guble back then, stayed up all night with her g/f playing cards and did nothing around the house, so i worked and had to come home and do everything. and the guy pretty much told me yeash she should and told her no he shouldnt compain. he left the state for the fear of his life.
and her female friends told her she should kick her butt, most women would love to have an husband like me who is willing to help around the house.
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
13 May 10
If I was in that situation, I can forgive him though I will never trust him totally. If he values the chance I gave him then he should not do it again. Once he do it again then it's over. Once is enough,twice is too much.. There are many fishes in the sea and I believe in that.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
13 May 10
Right on .. the saying here we hear so often is "burn me once, shame on you,
burn me twice, shame on me" ..we don't have to be doormats for people to walk
on us./
@joey_matthews (8354)
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5 Nov 10
I know this wouldn't happen but if it did I would confront her.
Secondly I would leave taking my children with me, if anyone attempted to take them off me well I wouldn't like to be them. I pretty much think any father would go like this and I know it sounds extreme but I would rather do this + seek legal rights than to go without them and never see them again.
Thankfully I know my wife isn't that sort of women. :)
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
16 May 10
i hope this does not happen to me, i might not be able forgive.
@Arak_ani_47 (23)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
i don't think i have it in me to forgive a cheating partner...for me it is the ultimate betrayal of your love and trust.....i hope this will never happen to me cause my heart would totally shatter..
