Wrong advice
By thanks1961
@thanks1961 (7035)
India
May 14, 2010 1:15am CST
I was in a new place and looking for an address. I asked a nearby person and enquired about it. He advised that "just walk for 5 minutes on the same road and take a turn left and the gray coloured 4th tall building" - I went up as per his instruction. As he was clearly narrated the exact location, I didn't go for an another confirmation. I could not find out the place any more, and later on I come to know that the person was just misguided and lied and the exact place was somewhere else.
Have you faced such an incident by any chance? Or did you misguided any one just for the sake of it?
Please comment.
Thank-s
3 people like this
8 responses
@screwdriver (643)
• Philippines
14 May 10
Time like this, when i got lost, I always first trust my instinct. If all fails, thats the time I ask people, not one but many. Its good to get more information than just one person who is not really sure if what they told you are exact. So the next time I go to a place that is not familiar to me, I make sure I got all the information I need, like what is the exact name of the street or the building. Or is their any landmark that I can always look up if I got lost.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 May 10
I think another best way to avoid that is having a map on your own, at least search for it. if it's available, print it and take it with you, of course asked also so that you will gain more information if the map you downloaded is updated or not. but follow the map, it's the best accurate procedure in looking for something
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
27 May 10
Of course i've been on that incident before. I went with my aunt in cebu city for a vacation since we are new on that place, we ask some of the by standers if how can we go to a certain place like the mall. though my aunt been on that place a couple of times but every year the route of jeeps, taxi and buses had been changed. I guess there are some people that if they knew that you are not from that place they try to misguide you. But in my case i never do such thing like that if someone ask me for directions. It's not a good feeling if someone does it to you too.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
28 May 10
Thank you for your comments. All the more, we should be careful while asking someone for such helps.
Thanks
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 May 10
Hi, thanks1961. No. I have never misguided someone intentionally or on purpose. If I did, it may could have been by mistake. That is mean to give someone the wrong directions to a location. If I know how to get to a place, I will tell them and sometimes if it is close, I will show them. If I don't know how to get to a certain place that the person is asking, I will tell them that I don't know. And I may just ask someone whom is nearby how to get to the location. That way I can still help this person. Honesty is the key here.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
21 May 10
Good boy. This is the way a generation is formed. I wish if everyone has the same feeling, how beautiful our lives would be. You have communicated a great message to the public.
Keep it up.
Regards,
Thank-s
@med889 (5941)
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18 May 10
I have been in such a situation too and once arrived at my true destination I felt so angry about the ma who gave me wrong advice, I do not know what they get to do so but this is really bad because I am a girl and wondering in unknown places is not good , I was just visiting a friend who changed address though.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
19 May 10
Hi,
I think many have faced this problem. But, if it a female, I think even if they don't know the exact location, they will be ready to help in any way. Wrong advice is rarely happened (in case of ladies). But in your case it is strange.
However, be alert and ask more people, if you have any doubt.
Regards and thank you for your comments.
Thnk-s
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 May 10
hello there,
NO THANKS to that guy who just wanted his say and doesn't accompany you it's better to ask more than just one person next time or you might end up asking the wrong person or some one who has not been aware of that place for a while. must be hard looking for that place again,unless you asked another person
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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22 May 10
Hi Thanks,
I have to admit that anyone asking me for directions does so at their peril. In my case I never memorise street names, and I visualise things in ways I can't articulate later. So if someone asks me how to get somewhere I can say vaguely where in the world it is, i.e./ 'it's that way', but I can't tell them exactly how to get there. As thus either the person gets a very jumbled response while I try and convert my inside images into words, or I just point and tell them to keep there eyes open in the direction I think they have to travel! I never purposefully misguide though so if I have no idea what they are talking about I tell them, but if I do know then they have to decode the directions I give them or try elsewhere !
I always make a note of what was asked though, so if in the future I am asked again I can give a better response
All the best,
Dranz
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
14 May 10
sometimes I also experience things like that. I don't know why people give the wrong instructions but I can understand maybe I'm asking rather than on the right person.
@balichique (21)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
I also have experiences like you. It happen to some of my family and my friends. Often happen when I ask a nearby person in a small village. Many of them often miscalculate about distance. For example, they said "just go straight about 3kilometres from here then you found the place you looking for." In fact, it take about 5 or more kilometers from place I meet him.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
17 May 10
Hi,
In villages, ok, for them a 5 km may be 3 km for them. At least they are villagers or for them quite a far distance they will calculate a certain mental calculation.
However, while in an unknown place, if we are forced to ask someone, better to check with several people.
Thank you for your response.
Regards,