Do you laugh when your nervous or experiencing other emotions?
By apples99
@apples99 (6556)
United States
May 14, 2010 1:21am CST
I sometimes laugh when I'm nervous even when I fill slightly afraid. its strange how our emotions work, I've been in brief situations were it required me to be serious and not laugh, but I couldn't help it I got that tickling sensation in my belly and started to laugh not because I found the situation humours it was purely my nerves.
Well maybe it was a slightly funny situation but I mostly laughed because I was nervous dont get me wrong most of the time I only laugh when something is really funny, and I know when to be serous but sometimes my nerves get the best of me.
Do you sometimes laugh when your nervous afraid?
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11 responses
@someofmine (59)
• Poland
14 May 10
I experienced something like that before exams. It only happened in groups of people, that were waiting for their turn or for written exam to start. Suddenly, someone said some poor joke about our situation and from that point everything was one big joke. We just couldn't stop. People were telling more and more absurd things.
I know it was a way to disarm our stress.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
15 May 10
When I'm experiencing other emotions, I just go null. I put on my poker face so nobody could read me. I sometimes laugh even though I'm angry. One time I was being bullied. I've had enough of it although I'm still laughing as though I wasn't affected by his verbal bullying. Then next thing he know, my fist was coming fast straight to his face. Laughing can catch people off balance. It's an advantage sometimes whenever you're in a similar situation.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
14 May 10
I often laugh in nervous situations. It sometimes makes it easier to handle. If you can laugh at yourself and your predicaments, life rolls along a lot smoother.It makes life seem less complicated.
@snowqueen200802 (1463)
• United States
15 May 10
Yes I have and it's very upsetting because I can not deal with the situation at hand.
Snow
@alexies29 (124)
• Philippines
14 May 10
Each person have his own way of coping different kinds of situations. In your case, it's through laughing. There are situations however, that this coping technique won't be good because it could be misinterpreted by others. But if you're the kind of person who doesn't care about others, then it's fine. It's better that you have this way of covering difficult or awkward situations, rather than not having one at all.
@sweet_words (51)
• Philippines
15 May 10
im a very emotional person, but i tend to hide it through my smile.
smiling is the only way to hide my sadness, even though its a fake smile,
i dont mind, as long as i can hide my pain, sadness, and suffering, it will always be enough.
but sometimes, being alone and doing nothing can trigger my sadness.
it tends t burst out, thats why sometimes i rather sleep than doing nothing at all.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
14 May 10
Ah yes I do this alot. I always get in trouble for it too. People say "that's not funny." or "You never take anything seriously!" I have to explain to them, that its just something I do. A habit. Its not on purpose. I do it when I'm nervous, or worried." I have odd behaviors when I'm emotional. Like for instance when I'm really really angry, I smile. Nice big smile. I never knew it till someone one day said "Why are you smiling?" I looked at my reflection and there was a big smile on my face. Then it happened several other times. Of course they never believe me. People think everyone should be just like them. If I have a frown on my face, then you should always have a frown on your face.
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
14 May 10
I usually end up laughing for no reason when I get really tired. Sometimes I laugh at situations that aren't really funny, but it's because I have ADHD and have trouble controlling it at night when I started getting worn out and exhausted, so I get super hyper. Even the smallest things can trigger me. If you just look at me I can laugh for 5 minutes straight! Makes it kind of weird sometimes at work since I work evening shift late into the night, but they're used to me by now and I'm usually pretty awake at work, so it works out just fine. :)
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
14 May 10
Hi,
I know that feeling. Yes, I used to laugh when I was nervous. I bet I looked very stupid on those moments. Even those laughs were the silliest looking ones. Nervousness is indeed a queer sensation. It feels as if your mind is totally void and all your reasons have suddenly come to a halt. You can't cry as nervousness is none of those strong emotional waves that make us feel extremely sorry. It is this 'tickling' sensation that makes us laugh a silly laugh.
Thanks
God bless you
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
14 May 10
I sometimes laugh when I am scared. People find it weird for me to do that cause I am not suppose to laugh. They are expecting me to shout or something but I laugh. I know the reason anyway why I laugh. Sometimes I cant believe myself scared about something. I laugh because I am laughing at myself and how I react to things. lol
@LotRowena (158)
• Philippines
14 May 10
HI there!
This article of yours get me thinking...lol. But NO! I never experienced laughing when there's nothing to laugh at. I mean I am who I am depending on the situation I am into. When the situation calls for me to be serious then I am, when I am in a group where we are casually talking and suddenly there's a funny talk or something, I will just find myself laughing, when someone very dear to me passed away I cry in an instant. I mean, I don't remember being like you and I envy you, know why? because that is something like REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. contradicting your feelings so you don't get obvious and I think that's fine, it is just how you handle it.