beauty or brains or personality?

Yes personality counts. When i have a crush, for sure before I developed a crush on him i find him first very attractive. I am attracted first to the physical appearance, even the way they wear their dress. But when I got to know this individual and I found out that their lacking of sense or substance, I get turned off and I will never like that person again. Person with such an average face but with personality and intelligence, became handsome or beautiful for me. their beauty is their personality itself. Its hard to stay for longer hours on person without substance, like they only know how to brag about themselves but when you asked about what is happening on Earth, they will give you a clear eye. I prefer personality because I based on the way they think. And I believe on beauty internally.

I would probably stick with personality. Since I'm going to be with the person for a long time, assuming that we would get married, then I think personality is one to go for. Beauty would fade, and brains, well, we can train someone to be more brainy. Hehehe. But personality is the person itself, and it's hard to tell someone to change their personality. LOL. Anyway, I like guys who are easy-going and who loves to have fun. I don't think I would ever go out with a guy, no matter how gorgeous he is, if he's really boring and we don't have anything to talk about because he doesn't have any hobbies at all. hehehe.

Well to say actually and truly, i look only for a beautiful lady.. I don't mind her brain or personality.. I need a good looking girl with good attitude who understands me.. I'm already an average looking boy, no good girls will look at me by any chance, they all search for white boys, whenever i cross by they just ignore me..

hi,choosing a partner seeing the personality,brains or good looking these are j4ust dont much importance.If the person with good personality is daily hurting u do u like to be with him/her.If the person is good looking and always says that u are below his standards would u like to live happily with such7 person.if the very intelligent brains always says u r a fool would u love to be with him /her.Love is what u need to make and be in relation.

I would also choose personality. You know, with a great personality a person could start to look good-looking or appealing. On the other hand, if the person really looks bad, well, there's always surgery so you can improve it. A bad personality will be hard to correct or change. On the brainy side, you don't really need a brainy partner unless you prefer brainy people. It is the personality that would make the relationship last.

My friends say I'm a very choosy girl. They say I have too high standards that's why up until now I don't have a boyfriend but I could see nothing wrong with it. Anyway, if I were to choose only one, I'd say I would want to choose brains. I'm not a smart girl so I need one to support my weaknesses.

If I can tell my heart who to choose, I will probably choose Personality. Well... good personality. It doesn't matter how intelligent the person is, personality is more important to be likable. If you have the good attitude people will respect you and that is important to me.

When we first meet someone all we can see is their beauty. We know nothing about the person inside. Once we get to know this person, we discover their intellect. You can have beauty or brains or both. If you are lacking personality, you are missing a huge part of life. Personality is what rounds you out as an individual. This is what makes you shine to others.

For me personality because if you love someone you feel beautiful and the brains is more important to have the ability to work.

Hey Pierrella, I would say brains. I , like any human is natural attracted to good looking people and so I would stare and observe the person but what truly impresses me is a person with brains and substance. What good is a beautiful/handsome person with a great personality but is brainless(figuratively speaking off course). Looks do not last forever, just for a few years but what the person is- characteristics, traits all this matters at the end of the day!

actually,i will choose brains. u know,my boyfriend has good looking and a nice personality,but we donot communicate much. because we are not at the same intellectual level.often it is boring to talk to him.

I agree with you. If a asked to choose one, i prefer to choose personality.Good personality can reduce or eliminates disputes in our relationship. Someone with good personality will easily make friend with anybody, include our family. People like that will make me feel peaceful. Actually i love people who has three of them, so i tried looking for the best that will fill my life someday.

PERSONALITY is the most important aspect in choosing a partner. what is the use of beauty if his/her heart is like a rock? and if her brain is empty? what is the use of his/her brain if she/he acts as if everyone is inferior from him/her? if a person has good personality, it doesn't matter if she/he doesn't look good, because the way she'll treat others, will surely capture everyone's heart.

for me, its personality. whats the point of being pretty or being smart if your attitude are bad. i mean, anyone can handle people who are pretty and smart, but having a bad personality is very difficult to understand and soon, you'll just end up arguing... :)

Personality is the most important. It's tough to hang out with a person with bad personality. Brain is also important as we must at least be able to communicate at the same intellectual level. I don't think looks is that important. So long as the person looks ok, I think it's fine.

For me its personality if I had to choose out of the above three. But really their moral values are more important to me that in general they are just a good and decent person thats more important to me.