Do you agree that peace must come from within?
By Pose123
@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
May 14, 2010 4:44pm CST
Sometimes when we look at the outside world and find it in a state of chaos, we may feel compelled to transform the situation from one of turmoil into one of peace, but we are often disappointed. Why do you think that this is so? Maybe it's because we cannot bring to the world what we do not have to give. Peace starts in our own minds and hearts, not outside of ourselves, and until its roots are firmly entrenched in our own selves, we cannot manifest it externally. Once we have found it within, we can share it with our family, our community, and the whole wide world. Do you agree?
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@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
16 May 10
ABSOLUTLY! I could not agree with you more. We humans have yet to learn our world and our existance is finite and that the future is not gauranteed. The problem lies in something I wrote recently about "GREED","RELIGION" and "ENVY". These to me are the stepping stones to destruction of our human race and our planet. How we deal with them will dictate what will happen to us and the world we live in. At the moment things do not look to promising I'm sorry to say. What do you think?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 May 10
Hi bigal, Thank you for commenting and you make some good points. Certainly greed and envy are leading us toward destruction, and in many cases religion does more harm than good. My thought is that we need spirituality but not religion. Religion divides people while spirituality unites. I feel that peace must start with each one of us because peace does come from within. Peace cannot be forced on one person or one nation by another, it may work for a short time but that's all. Blessings.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
15 May 10
Hi Pose,
Good day!
I agree with you. Sometimes we focus too much on wanting to do something big for the world and for the whole humanity that we forget to look within ourselves if we have peace inside. I also believe that before we can attain peace it should first start within us. Only if we have peace deep within us we can share it with other people starting with the people close to us like our family, friends, etc.
Peace should not be superficial. It should be something that lies deep within.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 May 10
Hi Ladyslipper, Thank you for sharing and I agree. It's easy to spot a truly peaceful person, he/she has a confidence about them, a patience that puts another completely at ease. We will never know peace until we find it within and we will never know world peace until all peoples agree to it. Peace can never be forced on another, it may work for a short while but not for very long. Blessings.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
I think you are right to feel peace we must feel peace in our heart.
I personally feel peace when I am pray to my dear God, share my good and bad moment with Him, after that I will feel peace and I feel every thing will alright because I have God who walk beside me.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
15 May 10
I certainly agree peace comes from within however one has to be careful not to let outside situations and events disrupt your "PEACE". In these violent and strange times it is too easy to be distracted and caught up in all of negatives instead of focusing on positive things.
Can we humans find "PEACE" on our planet. I really don't know. One look at history and you can get an idea. For example the "HISTORY CHANNEL" on tv has an outstanding series on the various civilizations that have occupied this blue rock in space. In every one there has been "War" and "Strife". We are talking about more than seven thousand,(7000), years. You would think mankind would have learned a lesson by now. But alas, that does not seem to be the case. WILL WE EVER LEARN?
Do you believe we as humans can get our collective acts togather?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 May 10
bigal, That is a question that many have asked and to which no one seems to know the answer. Of course we must find that peace within ourselves before we can do anything. I feel that although it may not look that way, more and more people are beginning to see that peace comes from within and can never be forced upon us by another. As you say a look at history confirms this but I believe it goes much further back than seven thousand years. Will we ever learn? I think so but as to how long it will take is another question. Blessings.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
15 May 10
there is so much violence and unrest in our world. we have to pray and try to think good thoughts to achieve some peace. we should try to look and find the good things and to be more appreciative of all we do have. i have to work on this all the time, since i am a sad, negative person with health issues.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
16 May 10
Hi clocks, Thank you for sharing and I agree we must manifest peace to the world but unless it is within us, we don't have it to give. In your own case it might be best to use positive words and not talk much about your problems. When we do this we make them more real in our life. I hope that you will be feeling better soon. Blessings.
@someofmine (59)
• Poland
14 May 10
I won't be original and write, that I totally agree with you. The problem is, how to find peace in your mind. People, who don't have peace within do everything to make others as much unbalanced as they are.(mostly unconsciously)
So the first task is to find this peace and the other one is to make it permanent.
I must say, that other is much harder for me. It is constant process. I am more and more "there" but sometimes I lose this feeling. However, it happens rarer with time.
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@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
15 May 10
actually the real peace is comes from ourselves and not from the others as they have their own mind since we cant control them, real peace is acceptance and understanding. if we try to accept every thing and understand why it happened even though sometimes its hard to accept and to believe but its being part of our life and its not us alone who experience those things. We become so trouble coz we keep of thinking and digging about the past specially those that make us feel so bad and hurt, i know its not easy to let go but we cant bring back the hands of time anymore and no matter how we try we cant change what happened before, a lot of people are like that, they are full of hatred about the people coz of what happened in the past. though we cant avoid to remember those past but lets just count on them as lesson to learn and just part of our life. if we learned to accept it and face it in different way to day and tomorrow then im sure we will have peace.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
16 May 10
Hi homeshoppers, Thats a very interesting response and you've hit on the answer to many of the problems people have, they cannot forget the past. It is the same with being angry with ourselves for something that we did an hour ago, a week ago or ten years ago. It's in the past and there is nothing we can do about it. Leave it there and move on. The discussion here of course is about peace and it must come from within but such people as we've talked about will not find peace within because there is too much turmoil in their lives. People have forgotten the importance of silence. We all need to spend at least ten minutes each day in silence, time when we can go within and find true peace. Blessings.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
14 May 10
I do agree that peace has to come from within. You need to have peace on your heart and soul before the feeling that can be shared by others with you. Peace is a state of mind that you need a firm grip on before you journey anwhere in life.
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@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
15 May 10
Hi,
Yes we often search outside in vain for peace. We confuse pleasure with happiness. But peace indeed springs from within. One who is at peace with oneself is in harmony with the rest of the world as well. We are getting attached to the material world and loosing our liberty. If we can stay independent and free, we will certainly enjoy everything in this world. We don't know how to appreciate what we already have. We want to acquire more and more earthly pleasure. Our wants often exceeds our necessity and this is where obligations and attachments come to play trick on us. We feel like those birds who, because of staying in cage for years, have forgotten all about flying. With such a burden on our chest we can just hop and run, but can't fly. Inner liberty brings us happiness that is quite independent of what is going on outside. Our happiness and inner peace gradually becomes quite invincible. Thanks
God bless you
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
16 May 10
Hi getiswa, Thank you for a very good response and I completely agree with you. So many people seek peace from outside themselves and of course they never find it. Some think it comes with money and other material things, while others seek it in power over others. Than of course there are those who seek it through pleasure and while we are meant to be happy and enjoy life, simple pleasure seeking is never enough. I am not a religious person but I do consider myself to be spiritual, and I remember that Christ said Blessed are the peacemakers, yet more than two thousand years later we are still fighting, still killing each other. When more people learn that peace must come from within ourselves and it's possible for all to have it, it's then that we will see peace. Let's not worry about the length of time it takes for we have all the time we will ever need. Blessings.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 May 10
I think so. I think it has something to do with the individual first before he or she can have the peace someone wants to have. If you feel peaceful then it projects. Its contagious too cause people are gonna think that you are so calm and that you have peace from within that is powerful enough to influence others.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
16 May 10
Hi p3ks626, Thank you for commenting and I agree. It is just great to watch a truly peaceful person and see how he/she handles the problems that life throws at all of us. You are right about it being contagious as well as such people have a calming affect on others. Blessings.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
15 May 10
Love your sweet words Pose. I would have to agree with you. There is nothing far from the truth, as you said it: "peace must come from within"
As tea pours out of the teapot, peace should pour out of a peaceful mind and body too. We can't change the world alone. But in our very own small way and in our own small actions we can become role models to our families, friends, colleagues, the neighborhood, the community we live in. When we change positively people would eventually change toward us. When our world changes the world outside would eventually change.
It is not a smooth journey and one that would not take an overnight either. But it's worth every effort. If nothing is done, nothing would have been accomplished five years down the road. Do something and something would be achieved.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
16 May 10
Hi tomitomi, 'Do something and something will be achieved', I love that line, it would be a good motto for all of us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Peace of course can only come from a peaceful mind as the answer to all things lie within. I agree that achieving world peace is worth every effort. Blessings.