Is a a good idea for a woman to have a male housemate?

For me it depends on who that man is. Is he someone you've known for a long time like a very close friend? Is he also someone you can trust and you feel comfortable around him? If your answer to those questions are yes then I'd say there would be no problem. When I was in College I rented a two bedroom apartment and my housmate is a girl. However, I have a lot of freinds in College whose housemates are men. I even have one girl friend who have like 3 -4 men housemates. Of course they have their own rooms. It was common among us since I have a Sorority and Fraternity in College. Even until now we still see each other and some of them are still housemates. Just make sure that things will not get complicated by ensuring that man knows his limitations and will respect you. You also have to take into consideration the lifestyle and habits of that person. Make sure that if you decide to live with him then you'll be able to deal with his bad habits common among men. Don't expect for him to be as neat and tidy as you always. Make sure also to know if he is a type of man who brings women at home. If that's the case if you can't take that then you'd better not live with him. Another thing that you might want to take into consideration is if he is a partygoer and sometimes invite his friends especially male friends for a house party. Those are just some of the things you need to consider and might want to talk with him before you agree on having him as your housemate.

What you should do is to look for another dorm with a girl as house mate. Your reputation will be downgraded because you are living with a man whom you should not be living with. A man is still a man and you may not be sure what will happen next.

I'm a male and i had a female housemate once. It was fine. We bonded w/ each other everynight. She's cool and down to earth. I think it depends on who you're going to live w/. It doesn't matter if it's a male or a female.

I had guy roommates in our boarding house when I was still new in college. When my mom learned that I'm gonna be sharing the house with guys, she then told me to always lock and never enter my room. I did what she said because I was also afraid of those men. But as days and months passed by, every thing turned out fine. I was the youngest among the boarders and they, including some adult women in the other rooms, treated me like their little sister. When they had celebrations, they would knock on my door and invite me to eat with them in the kitchen. It was a lot of fun knowing them. After a year the guys moved out of the boarding house (I forgot the exact reason). In your case, it's the right thing to do to tell your mom about the situation. She has all the right to know. And in your part, if ever you're going to pursue living there, just be careful all the time. Always be sure to lock your door and you can also put some additional locks to be super sure, because knobs can be 'cheated'. And always be vigilant not just inside that house but around your new community as well. God bless!

it all depends on your values as long as you draw the line with him and nothing malicious happens. just always be careful. If your housemate is quite good looking then it could be a problem haha =p

Mom's the best analyzer in this characteristic thingy. Just be careful you don't know what you might bump into, out there.

You should make sure that you know this man really well. If you don't know him, I wouldn't move. If it really bothers you, try to find a new roommate, even though it may not be as nice of a place. Safety first, as they say! That said, I've lived with men before and nothing bad happened.

If you decide to do it, Make sure he knows your bedroom is off limits. Even if it's his house. You are paying rent for your privacy. Be very careful. Take a couple of people you know and trust to visit him and ask their opinion of him later when you are alone with these people. Trust your gut instinct and if he seems nice and your instincts and friend s all agree. Try it but get everything in writing. If you ever need to go to court over anything you will have the proof on paper. This is the best advice i have for you. Good luck and hope it all works out.

Like in the same room? That's gonna be tough specially if you don't know the guy. You never really know. Its not being suspicious, just being safe, right?

Hey anime! Great to see you girlfriend! Sometimes men can be the best roommates, if it is a platonic relationship! Men can make wonderful friends! They can be alot easier to live with than women! They are less picky and less in your business, if you know what I mean! So, don't be so quick to say "no"! Now I have a male roommate, but he is supposed to be my boyfriend too! But, that part isn't going too well! But, as a roommate he is the best! He even does the laundry, cleans the house, does errands! It's just that that isn't how it was supposed to be so we have a problem! But, don't let that stand in your way! Men make the absolute best roommates! I mean it!

Living in a place with a man you do not know is kind of alarming. It more alarming if only the two of you live in that same place. If you have no choice though, start making friends with him to get to know him.

I'm a male and i had a female housemate once. It was fine. We bonded w/ each other everynight. She's cool and down to earth. I think it depends on who you're going to live w/. It doesn't matter if it's a male or a female.

Well, I'm a guy and I had experiences renting places and sharing them with girl/s. I did not experience anything out of the ordinary and I know my boundaries. I don't know about other men though, it is correct for you to be really careful about this. Maybe get another friend who is a girl to come and bunk with you a couple of few days. That might be a great way to get the feel of the place first before going at it alone.

yes you can,today the world is open and the mindframe has also broden up just be carefull that you don't seduce him with your outfits or casual approach and be in your limits he will automatically know his limitations and you can sit and workout things.