Do guys really love to be pampered by girls?

@mjcookie (2271)
Philippines
May 15, 2010 1:14am CST
So I was watching an interview of my celebrity crush and I found out that his ideal girl is someone who's motherly, who would prepare a lunch box for him, fix his collar, and dust off the dirt in his shirt. Then I thought that many guys are like that. Is it true for most guys? Do you find it sweet or cheesy? would you want a girlfriend who pampers you most of the time?
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 May 10
Hey mj! You are still really young to be worrying about what a guy really wants. You need to slow down and take your time! You have alot of time to learn what a "real man" really wants, and to be honest, you may never know!lol Men are hard to read and they all differ in what they want! If I were to try to fuss with my man who just pushes me away! He is all about "doing it his way" and "doesn't need my help"! But, then some men do want a woman to fuss over them! Like, I said, there are so many different types of men out there that it would take forever to figure it all out! So, don't stress yourself about, just have fun and when that very special one comes around, hopefully you will know! But, not for at least another 10 years or so!lol
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
16 May 10
I know, Opal, I'm just curious. LOL. Awww, I would want a boyfriend who wants me to help him and be with him all the time. I think it's sad when your guy pushes you away. How do you stand that?
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 May 10
That's just the way he is! He is a bit difficult, but that is a very long story! You are fine in wanting someone to fuss over, but, "be careful what you wish for"!
• Jamaica
23 May 10
I love when a girl gives me alot of attention or who shows that she cares just once in a while
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
I think that's a relative thing, depending on each person. I personally, do not like to be pampered by the girls because I am aware and confident that my face may not appeal to most girls
• Philippines
15 May 10
I like it when girls pamper me. I think it's sweet. I used to be pampered by my ex. She used to do it everytime i go to their place. It makes me feel good so i repay her with sweetness. :)
• Philippines
15 May 10
At first women find it weird to treat a guy like a baby. The point of men is that, they do not want to be treated like babies, they just need protection from stress and women does that adequately enough although they feel guilty because of worrying about being used as a tool. To be treated fairly almost seem selfish but it is strongly recommended. If the guy becomes sick, and ends up in jail, the girl who failed to give love is partly to blame.
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
15 May 10
i dont like to be pampered but i like to pamper..
• India
15 May 10
well i need a good mix of both