will she live a happy life?

China
May 15, 2010 3:13am CST
my boss's wife told us a girl who is aged 23 married a man aged 45,and they only were together for about 3 months, the man is very rich,he divorced with his ex-wife just because she did not want to have a child,and now his present wife has been pregnant.when i heard about the news i am really doubt will the girl lead a happy life?what do u think about it pals?
6 responses
@anjyell (127)
• India
15 May 10
It totally depends on them because if they love each other nothing can hinder them.This year only one of my friend got married to a man of 40+.She is around 24-25. They are happily leading their life.Personally I also would to tie my knots with a more mature man
• China
16 May 10
hi anjyell,some of my friends also have the same idea as u.yes a mature man can be more safe for u.hope u will achieve your goal soon.
• United States
18 May 10
Stories like this make to think that there must have been some dishonesty in the relationship between the husband and his first wife, or there was a lack of communication. Either they didn't talk about having children, or one spouse lied to the other about what they did or didn't want. Time will tell whether or not his new wife will have a happy life, but there's got to be some doubt or concern in her mind. Surely she must wonder if he'll dump her like he did his first wife if wife number two doesn't meet all his requirements.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
I guess she was not happy, however if we speak the truth, we must know that love does not know the material. Love only knows your heart and love can never be imposed
• United States
16 May 10
well he is old enought to be her dad and that is probly how he treat's her and all he really wants is the bed room time anyway and having a younger woman on his arm will she be happy maybe for awhile until he divorce her for a younger one he sound like a baby making machine and what does he care he is getting old enough that he won't be around for these kids to grow up or to see his grandkids that is the sad part.
• Philippines
15 May 10
Hey pal! I think the 45 year old man made the right decision. I wanna have a child. I think all sane men want to have a child. But the fact thet his ex-wife doesn't really made the marriage awkward and wrong. At least I think it is. Now that the 23 yr old girl you were talking about is pregnant, that's great for him cuz that's what he wanted, right? I don't think there'd be anything wrong with their relationship, except maybe some arguments that really comes with the relationship.
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
16 May 10
There really is no way to know if she will be happy or not. Honestly the man divorcing his previous wife is totally immaterial to the new relationship. It's highly unlikely given the circumstances that unless something unknown is being left out of the story that she would have any cause to be unhappy.