how do you show your beloved ones that you really love them?
By phoenix8606
@phoenix8606 (4942)
May 15, 2010 11:37am CST
Hell0 dear friends! I just wanted to ask you, how do you actually show your beloved once that you love them? do you give them some presents, or you sing them a song, or you just tell it to them? what exactly?
5 responses
@med889 (5941)
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15 May 10
I love someone for more than four years now and I do not miss anything to show him or tell him that I love him so much. Usually it is mostly by actions that I show him because I am not someone who will tell him everytime that I love you. But I prefer to do something like cook for me, sing, dance, give gifts, write poetry.
Love is such a tender feeling that we need to show to be able to feel the blessing of loving someone truely in life.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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16 May 10
hell0 there Med!
yeah, it is really great to love someone for such a long period and if you really love each other so tender I guess that it is already time to get married if you still haven't done it. Because for me there is maybe nothing more special than that to show the person that we love him/her when we marry him/her. I guess that especially every woman will be so happy if the man of her heart ask her to marry him, I know how important it is for many women and they take it as something so special and it really is.
your friend must be such a lucky guy if you really so so many things for him, because I can surely tell you that not all of the girls/women do so many things for their spouses/partners and it is really wonderful when you, wome, do it. it is also so nice when men do it too, because it is actualy not only a thing that only women can do I am keep searching for the girl of my heart and hope that I will meet her soon, because I feel such a big need of someone that I can hold for hours close to me, sharing with her all my problems and showing her how much she means to me. I hope that I will find her soon, no matter that I actaully don't search that much for it :) maybe till the end of the year I will find her, maybe not :)
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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17 May 10
yeah, I hope to find her too :)
wish you all the BEST with your partner and BE HAPPY
@aprilmmm (77)
• France
19 May 10
In my opinion, the words"I love you" is the most beautiful words in the world, so just telling her directly "I love you" is the best way to show one's love. It's simple and wonderful. What's more, giving some presents, writing a love letter, doing everything we can for the most important person~
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 May 10
Yes, i think so too. BTW in my country there was a inquiry which is the most beautiful word in our language and the most of the people have chosen the word "love" as the most beautiful one. telling people that can really make them feel much much better!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 May 10
Hi phoenix! You don't have to always give someone something to
let them know that you love them! Sometimes a simple word, or
thought or just saying "thank you" is enough! But, it sure doesn't
ever hurt to send an email, or card or a simple gift to show
someone that you love them! Even a simple phone call is a great
way to tell someone that you love them! The only ones I dare
to sing to is my cats, Star & Luna! They are the only ones who
will actually listen to "Mama" horrible off key voice!lol
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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16 May 10
hell0 friend!
YEah, words can always express what we actually feel and material things like gifts or something else can't always do better, but I have actually never thought that I can send an email to someone that I love to tell this person that I really love him/her. I always have told it straight- face to face, or at least through phone because for me it is really important people to see me when I am telling them that, just because I want they to know that I am speaking seriously and I don't lie( I mean to people like my parents, sister, some other relatives, or my ex girlfriend). Parents really feel very happy when they hear these three( in my language noly two words) words from us, their kids- "I love you". I guess that your cats are two very lucky cats because you really love them and I have understood it several days ago, when you have responded in my discussions about that do who do you miss the most when you are abroad. then you have also told me about them, and i realized how happy and lucky these two cats are I hope that you will be able to love them many many years more. I have always admire people who love that much their pets, because it is really something great and not all of the people can do that!
BE HAPPY my friend!
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
16 May 10
I would think they would know by how I act around them or treat them. I do tell them that I love them but anyone can say that and not mean it. Actions speak louder than words is true I think.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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16 May 10
hell0 my dear friend!
yeah, I also think that actions can speak better and louder than words, but words can only do the same thing if you know what exactly to tell to your beloved one, because not al kind of words can show that what you really feel about her/him. But in the most cases actions really do the better work