Doubtful People...

@ptzkoh (96)
Philippines
May 15, 2010 12:07pm CST
i have an unemployed friend who owns a computer with internet connection. she spent all her time with facebook, chatting with her friends, uploading photos and playing games in facebook. i talked to her and discussed the money online and gave her the legit sites where she can earn money while doing her hobbies. my friend refused my offer, she's doubting and said "it looks like a scam!!" i told her that many members already received their payout. then she said that she will join the sites after a received my first payout.. how sad, i just like to help her, she will going to start when it's already late. my dear mylotters as first timer, can you help me how can i build their trust to join this kind of sites?? thank you a have a nice day!!
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16 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 May 10
Well, it takes someone with the mentality of believing they can earn online, only then they will give it a try.. That's how majority of ple are thinking.. Just like when there's an investment opportunity presented right in front of us, and it does really work.. BUt we rejected it.. Does it mean that is a scam?? NOt really right?? It's just that we dun have such confidence in it working, and we wont wanna be wasting our time and money in that.. haha =D Just give her time, to learn more about online earnings, when she interacts with more ple.. hehe
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@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
15 May 10
your right kun, that's a nice one. thank you so much.
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@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
15 May 10
You must give the address with myLot I think this site will like your friend:)
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@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
15 May 10
thanks for your advice cip... :)
@Ruibinha (157)
• Portugal
15 May 10
Hi there, You can increase by showing her forums which have payment proofs from the sites, discussion topics about that site if its trustful or maybe a scam. Don't say things about "its too late if you gonna wait my 1st payout", it seems when she decides to join, the site will became scam. It doesn't increase confidence talking that way. Just say, as soon as you join, the faster you reach payout, the more referrals you get, etc etc... Let her see two or three forums with payment proofs from different people. It will probably help :)
@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
15 May 10
yeah, your right, i made a mistake in convincing her. but i learned. thanks rui for the help.. much appreciated..:)
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
15 May 10
The most effective method it`s to convince your friends. That you can do, only if you will show them other payment proofs or more efectivly you need to work a little harder to have your own payout from mylot, and then you`ll show them the proof. If they really want to make some money, they will join this site and they will be active and you will earn your commision too.
@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
15 May 10
thanks delkar, i'll keep it in mind. i appreciated your helps.
• Spain
15 May 10
you don't need to force her at this time and wait for your first payment so you could show her proof. my room mate is also an addict with some online games and i just let him get satiated with it. however if you could sit with her sometimes and show her how lively and fun we are having here in mylot maybe she might be encouraged. but if you found out that blogging wasn't her type and field of interest, just leave her and do mind your own businesses. i know most of you are good english users so blogging is an easy option for her just in case she would change her mind. not like our case that only some of us that never went to college can use the said language at least okay if not powerfully used.
@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
15 May 10
ok kumar, i will do that. nice advice.. thank you so much.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Hi!! It's really hard to do that.. I don't have friends referrals for your info. It's hard to make them trust you about this kind of things on the net and they have to figure out that the internet is like a gold mine that waits to be dug. It's really hard to explain to friends how a site turned scam than those people who you get referrals online who know the possibilities of online turned scam.
• China
16 May 10
Hi, friend. You've already done what you need to do, and that's okay. Now it's your friend's own problem. I don't think she ever wants to make money in her free time at all. If she wants to, then she wouldn't wait to see your payment. Instead, by doing some research, she'll find numerous payment proofs out there all by herself. The biggest problem is she doesn't want to earn herself, so why should you bother to help her?
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
17 May 10
Hi, ptzkoh. She mine as well go ahead and join some online sites to earn money from. She spends most of her time chatting... She should put her computer to work. Many years ago, I got so tired of being on the Internet. I was on it for long hours without making any money. I found about so many sites that I could get paid from. And now that is all that I do is seek ways of making money. Your friend should too. It would be good for her since she is unemployed. Why don't you show her your payment proof from myLot? Maybe that will change her mind. And if that does not, I don't know what else will.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 May 10
there are really lots of people who never trust internet as a source of extra income. i have the same experience as yours. but i do not forced people to join me, especially on mylot. there was one friend whom i never invited to join me here. but when she say the proof of my payouts, she was convinced and was the one who asked me to help her register. unfortunately, she turned inactive for months now, too sad.
@jeffrynov (130)
• Indonesia
16 May 10
indeed you are a good girl and have a good intention however, changing one opinion and even hobby is the same like trying to move a 50 pounds rock to your 50 kilo meters home in that case you would eventually fail but if you really want to take the risk you must stop try it but do it now! because if you confident enough and you have the reason why you should do this you WILL get the result and the risk, take that go like a pro show her that you are not only make her keep the hobby but also make her success with her hobby as you already did, remember don't try but do it do anything necessary to make her believe you like stealing here password or anything but as long as you do realize what would be the consequences, keep it in mind you never know what the result until you try it !
@nonersays (3335)
• United States
16 May 10
I was doubtful of some online ways to make money until I got a pay out. If they are really skeptical then you should show them any payment proofs you have. If you don't have any it might be harder to convince them that its legit.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
16 May 10
It is hard to convince people like that. If you will be able to convince her to sign up, most likely she will just make a post or two and that's it. Don't waste your time convincing such people. There are more important things to do here. Just go on with what you believe in and let her discover the truth for herself.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
16 May 10
You can send them a referral email. Check your referral link under your earnings. Invite him/her to view the myLot page. Seeing is believing...
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
15 May 10
The only way I can think of is to show her your payment proof. It would be really hard to convince someone with payment proofs posted in the internet since its really easy nowadays to create them using photoshop.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
15 May 10
Well, you feel she is your friend, but apparently she has trust issues with you. I tell you what try and trade with other members, sign up for sites they have and you are not in, show you are an active member by doing good work. I for instance trade and if you like to will trade with you. I prefer sites who pay at paypal, and pay instantly, no surveys.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
15 May 10
Hi dear, Convincing is not an issue for myLot. The one easy was is that just sit together with your friend for some time for few occasions. MyLot is one best site where anybody can work. I just not even completed one month and very much happy with it. The site reached me incidently. I don't even know how it appread on my computer. Just for fun, I registered. Now I left all other ones and spending much pleasure and great time pass. I have noticed that there are many people who are interacting with this site. If you move around on this for few hours you will meet so many people's experience not even having a talk with them. Don't make a hurry. If she is not active, show your growth in some time later again. She will get convinced gradually. Whenever you work, if possible ask her also to sit with another computer. Observe the growth in the income. I few days time she will realise the fact. And ask her to interact with people already in myLot. Relax. Gradually she will come in line. It is my word. Best regards, Thank-s