Will you allow yourself to be a way for others transformation?
@kenchiprincess (5296)
Philippines
May 15, 2010 11:29pm CST
I am just curious, how many of us will allow ourselves to get hurt and to humble down himself or herself jut to make way for someone we love to change. It saddens me when one stumbles they are forever be judge of their past. IT is just like they are wearing with them a Scarlet Letter tag, but no one will make a way to help out and be a way for this person transformation. Example prisoners has a hard time looking for jobs because of the crime that they have committed, people who have sinned and hurt people will not be given second chances for the fear of being hurt again.
The way I see it, i someone is really willing to change and the change is really visible. One should really have to try and give this person a chance for reformation because if this one person will not, who will do it?
What do you think? will you allow yourself to be a sacrificial lamb for someone?
4 responses
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
17 May 10
Everyone deserves a second chance. If God give us more than one chance to change what we are and He forgives all out sins even if if keep on sinning every now and then? how much more for people like us? we should also give room for consideration to those who want to have another chance.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Thanks for sharing friend. Not everyone though realizes this. At times it is easy to point a finger, criticize and judge a person of his or her past than giving this person a chance to change and to help out for change. I hope everyone realizes this that God himself has given us infinite chances to mend out crooked path why can't we do the same. Have a great day!
@SheyBee (18)
• France
16 May 10
There was a time when I thought I might sacrifice myself, even a few times I did so. But as today, I might say: NO.
Because, it is not me who will help that other person by humbling myself dow for him or her. It is a willingness to change that he or she must find inside himself: herself!! I have nothing to do with that.
By hubling down You will simply encourage that other person to use others and to continue waining!! No way. If he or she really is willing to change, he or she will find the way with or without Your help.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
16 May 10
I know you are speaking from experience and your experience wasn't that good. Sorry to hear that. I agree that that person should be willing to change of course. Thanks.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
16 May 10
If it really needs me to be gone or away then I'll do it if it has a positive outcome. Sometimes we have to do whatever it takes for a loved one to change for the better. I'm one of those people who would rather take the hit than let someone else who's willing to change for improvement get hit. I believe in change cuz I have done it myself. If the person's reality for a good change doesn't permit me to be on it then I'll gladly accept it. Besides, in a way I'm also helping the person change.
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@zedrick_11 (931)
• Philippines
16 May 10
yes of course..
if he will transform or change for the better..
i would be very happy if i will be a way for his good.. :)
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
16 May 10
It will really be of a great help to a person if someone will just accept them fro who they are as long as the change is for the good... Thanks for sharing!!!
