unfaithful man..

how was he flirting should be the concern. there is a whole difference between a guy being friendly with no malice towards another girl and a girl being friendly with no malice towards another guy. girls can camouflage or temper this friendliness towards a male so that it wouldn't appear malicious. the same thing cannot be said with a guy's situation. no matter how a guy tempers his friendliness towards a girl this would still appear as flirting. so this might appear as guys, even if behaved, seemed not to be contented with just one girl. of course, i stand corrected if i'm wrong.

Men flirting doesn't mean they aren't being faithful. I have been married for ten years, and love my wife very much, but sometimes I like to flirt with a friend. this doesn't mean I want to take that girl, it's only a bit of fun.

Because he is a man and he feels that he can have any woman that he wants. It is all about pride and control. Some men lust after women when they are not satisfied. I don't see why he would be running around on you, you are very pretty. I know that looks does not always play a major role in love, but he should be coming home to you, not to other women that may be no good for him. It is so sad when a man does not know what he has got until he has lost it.

This is so bad but you know there is a saying which says that man can take baths many times but they will continue to smell like a swine. So if we will always be thinking of their unfaithfulness we will never be coming to understand many things in life. I know this is so frustrating, discouraging for someone to be betrayed after showering much love to him so talk to him once for all and tell him what you think about the act and what you want from now on in your relationship with him.

just double think ok. do you think the girl he's flirting with gives satisfaction to him? surely not. if you found him with her it doesn't automatically mean he's into her. its just his way of having a meaningful conversation that do not lead to something serious but just for fun. he's like this, "I go waste my time talking to a girl. It's gonna be a fine day." then your assumption was he's thinking, "I'm going to talk to her to prepare for a new relationship should the present fail." I think its not wrong to have a relationship and neglect to have friendly contact with other girls.

now a days men becomes unfaithful to their partner,maybe because they are not satisfied to their girlfriend,because even me i also had a lived in partner for two years then i found out that he had a text mate girl who flirting him,of course we fought,he don't even answer me why he needs to had another girl.

I am glad that you are enjoying your BF. I hope you can get this issue worked out. Flirting only I think is no reason to be alarmed. As long as it doesnt take on making out. But I would pay attention to what I am doing, just to be sure that you are still being the same as when you got together. And you could also try keeping some spice in your relationship. Keep him happy and interested in you.

Just because he flirts doesn't mean he is unfaithful. He may just be a flirt. Wht do men need more than onme woman? It all deopends on the man, Not the woman. I think it is false to asume that if a guy cheats it is because his woman didn't do this or that. It is up to him. Many men just like the feeling that they can have more than one woman. Others they just fell for two women at the same time. It all depends on the man.

I can see that flirting can be harmless fun but of course there are degrees of it I guess and I think that it would be quite easy to cross the line! Personally I am glad that my husband is not one to flirt with women because I doubt I would feel comfortable with that. I would be inclined to have a talk to your boyfriend and explain that you feel his behaviour is not appropriate and if continues with it you may have to reconsider the relationship.

Hard question. Men can be committed to one women, and many do. But never has just a boy friend. You'll never end up with marriage style commitment from a someone you are not married to. But beyond that, there's something wicked about the human heart that we always want something we don't have. You go shopping and buy a dress, because you didn't have it before. Now you do have it, but you never ware it. Why? Because we always want something we don't have. And by the way, women are no different than men. If you look on mylot, there's another discussion going on saying "I find it easy to flirt with everyone but my boyfriend". There's a girl who flirts around with other guys, but can't stay committed to her boyfriend. The tough thing for you is... is he flirting because he's not as much in love with you as he thinks? Or is he flirting because he simply doesn't know that it hurts you? It could be either one. How to tell which of those it is, is something only you can find out.

A flirtatious personality is one thing but when they act on it is another.... My husband flirts also and makes comments but he has never crossed the line..... He is very harmless when it comes to that.... And he does not go overboard either.... Even with his comments he never touches ....... It is more of a flirtatious joking manner in which he approaches things..... He does it in front of me which does not bother me because we both know the lines and limits..... He is just a very nice man which some would call flirty..... He does not get vulgar either in his comments... And he only does it to people that know he is not serious with his comments..... He has never did it to anyone that would actually take it to heart.

One part of me wants to say that unfaithfulness is a natural instinct among men. However, I would be lying if I said that because I've been with my husband for the past nine years and never once has he flirted or otherwise looked at another woman besides myself. That leads me to the thought that the reason that there are some people that are just not mature enough to be able to handle monotany at that point in their lives.

Be frank and open, I will say No. It is not my experience, but the result of my research. Not only men, it can be in the other way also. If anyone is more concerned on beauty, it is our law is limited not the desire. Why I experimented, because, I wanted to clearly know that what you just talked about a man should have applicable to women also. A women has the desire to flirt with boys also. But as per our law, everything is limited. Our system is made in such a way. But all have the same kind of feeling to be with more men/women. Why because, if there is something beautiful, we have a feeling of be with you, good fragrances, beautiful flowers, wherever there is beauty, we must have a feeling to get it for you in all respects. It a law of nature, but as per our rules and regulations, we just controls. Why you are fond of a nice song? Why you are particular of your favourite food? All are some kind of attraction to the beauty of different things. men/women are just 1 thing of various beauties. So, appreciate and be a 50-50 ratio: which makes us more happier. You got what I mean? Good, Best regards, Thank-s

The guy is not love you. If he did he won't be flirting with other girls. Don't think that all guys are like that or even permit that excuse, that because all guys do that.

GUYs are not the only ones to flirt around or fool around.. Gals do the same thing as well.. Just like guys are making it more obvious since they have always been known for that.. haha =D Sometimes, guys are just out to have some fun, and u know guys, majority does not like to be tied down, or be committed.. We like freedom.. As such, when there's a chance to do so, most of us will tend to let our guard down, for temptations are too hard to resist!!

ptzkoh I am not too sure what is the extend of flirting. because when it comes to flirting the girls are the experts, they usually get what they want. While male still have a long way to go in that terms.

Hi there ptzkoh How do you define flirting in the first place? have you tried confronting him about this? What did he say? For me, guys would not do anything stupid if there's no underlying reason. I really am not sure when it comes to your boyfriend. I strongly suggest that you approach him nicely and be civil in dealing with it.

if he really love you, he doesn't make anything to make you hurt.. but as you say he is with other girls.. he is not deserving for your love.. at least as earlier you know if he is true to you or not before its too late.. life must go on.. their is another man who is truly for you which is much better..God Bless!

maybe because its their nature..i mean being polygamous..girls always cry before of this fact..but the best remedy is to confront him,ask him..because there are boys who are flirting around but still have only one woman in their heart.. i hope things will be better for the two of you!! goodluck..

It's almost a nature for every boy. So don't feel bad. One important thing you need to make sure is whether you are the only girl he is seeing at the same time. If you are the only one, then nothing needs to be worried. But if he is seeing several girls at the same time, then break up with him without hesitation.