friends with benefit
By alexies29
@alexies29 (124)
Philippines
May 16, 2010 5:25am CST
There's this group in the my previous workplace that loves going out and drink. It's a group of friends composed of more than 10 people,and a mixture of men and women. Their age ranges from the 20-28 years old. There was a time when they went to a beach out of the city to "relax and have fun". And one of my friends went with them. My friend was surprised with their activities. They'd drink a lot and they love to play "spin the bottle". The consequences include taking off clothes and walking around naked. If you don't want it, then you should give someone a torrid kiss. My friend never went out with them again.
Do you have friends who loves this kind of fun? Have you been in this situation?
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5 responses
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
16 May 10
Gross! though never been to but it would be scary for ladies but advantage for Guys!
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@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
16 May 10
Well I guess it is a lifestyle choice, I must admit I think I would love to have this kind of no string attached relationship, however I am not suitable as I get jealous of my partner doing that same thing. I then would not be able to demand the same.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
16 May 10
I could never join a group like that. Drinking and party is okay. But to the point of having very indecent consequences just for play. I don't think I can do it. I used to have a group of friends, girls and boys, in college that were heavy drinker. But I don't know why, when it came to me to drink. They would always considered me as the youngest...LOl...even I wasn't the youngest in the group. It was more like a label for me being a novice in that kind of surrounding...So they never allowed me to drink. That's what kind of sweet actually. And they remained my friends ever since. And I think it also depends on someone's will, if he/she would consent in doing those activities. If you say no, no one can oblige you to give a torrid kiss if you don't want too. They can't be called friends if they don't respect you. (^^,)
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
16 May 10
Dear Alexies.
It sounds fun. However, I personally do not think
I can fit in this group. I am quite conservative.
I do have friends and we do go out for fun, but
only for movies, high-tea, bowling and disco. We
do not drink much, only some social drinking.
Cheers and do keep in touch!
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@rhinarea (311)
•
16 May 10
I've been also in the situation i have this girl-friend who does this over a guy just met online. Friend with benefits is usually two people who have no major emotional attachment, or usually while getting over some other relationship or when no other committed relationship in the offing.
