What are your views on "Women's Intuition"?
By roxxtime
@roxxtime (299)
United States
May 16, 2010 10:47am CST
I have this feeling that my husband is not being honest with me, not cheating, but just not being honest. I don't know what it is or why I feel that way but he denies any secrets. This feeling is more like a knowing. I know something isn't right but don't know what. Is this women's intuition and should I trust my gut or believe what he says? I have never doubted him in the past and trust has always been our foundation but this feeling is causing doubts on whether or not I should trust him. I need advice. Please.
2 responses
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
17 May 10
I believe and trust on woman's intuition. In your case, you just have to satisfy yourself whether you're husband is still being honest with you or not. Why not try to confront him? In that case, you will have an idea. if you're not satisfied then it will come to a point that you will discover something in your own way the answer to your dilemma. Trust me, it will happen-that you will be able to find signs that will answer your doubts.
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
27 May 10
Hi roxxtime, that is good to hear. How was the confrontation? Nevertheless, the bottom line is that you guys are okay now.
take care
take care
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
16 May 10
I believe in intuition, but not "women's intuition" both sexes get intuition. Not always but a majority of the time if you think something is going on, then it probably is. But before you go pointing fingers, and accusing, find out. Get some evidence or something. If you accuse, without knowing for sure, then you'll always wonder "what if I was wrong." If you get proof then there will be no doubt in your mind, and you can move on faster.
@roxxtime (299)
• United States
16 May 10
I know that is my thing I have never not believed him and I don't want to accuse him so I am trying to believe him but cannot shake this feeling. I am doing my best to talk myself our of it but it won't go away. I don't know how to prove this feeling it's just irritating cause I want only to trust that he is honest.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
17 May 10
If you really think something is going on then it very well could be. Don't listen to anyone that tells you its all in your head, or when they say you're jealous, or blah blah blah. That means they are trying to shift the guilt from themselves to you. That's what cheats do. If you think something is going on, find out. Get some proof. Do some spying. If you find out nothing is going on, then great. If you don't do anything though, and you keep telling yourself nothing is going on, and turn a blind eye it will eat you up.
