have you ever became too busy that u dont have time for you friends anymore?
By mainam26
@mainam26 (57)
Philippines
May 16, 2010 1:34pm CST
i feel guilty having to let down my friends...
i mean i have a life to run..
the thing is it's asking too much time from me..
which i should definitely give...
making me not much of a friend..
i feel sad not having to have fun with them..
:((
3 responses
@jugsjugs (12967)
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16 May 10
I did used to have that problem aswell as i used to be made to feel guilty for going out to see friends aswell.I used to be the good wife trying to hold down 3 jobs aswell as look after the children and then try to keep house and never went anywhere.I noticed that the husband was doing all the things that he wanted todo all the time yet i never could as he was always out.Now i try to fit everything aswell as everyone in as i do not go out to work anymore so i do alot of the things during the day.
@ecyang (97)
• Philippines
16 May 10
When I was at my old job a few months ago, I became busy with my work (I was in media) that I missed a lot of events and going outs with my friends. Now I can hang with them more coz I just resigned and I plan to get a job that will give me more time to spend with my friends. :)
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
16 May 10
Yes i have been too busy that I had no time at all for my friends. I had time to hangout with them but when it comes to night outs and drinking sessions, I had to skip 'em cuz I felt like I will not have much time the next day. It feels sad sometimes but we have to make compromises to get what we really want. I thought if I stuck with them and ignore my work I'd end up unsuccessful so I poured all my time to work and less time for them. I find time to hangout with them, as I've said, so I think they understood me more or less.