What Words You Usually Used When Your Arguing?
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 16, 2010 4:33pm CST
Ever had an argument with your man/ woman? What are the most frustrating words usually being use hen you argue?
As for myself in the time of arguments then I really feel it pissed me off, I usually utter the words "WHATEVER".How about you can you share to us here what are words usually used when you arguing?
8 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
17 May 10
For me, it depends on how pissed off I am. There are time when I am really mad that I tend not to care and just say nothing like a cold war of some sort. There are also times when I really needed to say something that I just have to say all the things that will really annoy the person. Sometimes its an advantage to know that you know the person's weakness cause you know your target. lol
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
17 May 10
I agree.. It's becoming wise while you argue. Sometimes, argument may tell you what are the other things that you haven't knew with your partner. One time, I created some story accusing him doing things which I forbid. Although, it wasn't right but I play. I argue and try to piss him off yet his that generous enough to be calm and stay compose.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 May 10
Mean and hateful words erupt during arguments. They are words that can not be taken back once they are spoken. Phrases like I'll kill you or I hate you seem the easiest to explode from your lips.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
16 May 10
Yes, sometimes we said it too.Usually words that are spoken cannot be taken back.After the hated arguments subside all we can say is...sorry I didn't mean it.:)
@med889 (5941)
•
17 May 10
When I am in a full fight with my boyfriend then I will simply be saying "do whatever you want I don't care" and then you must see his face which turns red and then starts yelling loudly, so now I prefer to limit the scolding for him to limit the mistakes and then maybe things will work out for both of us and the wordings we use.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
17 May 10
LOL. Sometimes I argue with my husband. It's always because he won't listen to me and it's really annoying. I always say "I told you that bla bla bla but you won't listen, now see what happen!" I heard that "I told you" is the most annoying phrase, but..well, that's me.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Shut up! That is what I usually say. I don't want the conversation to go on or to make it longer... For me if the other person doesn't know how to listen and just want to talk and talk but all the talks that were coming out of his or her mouth were just nonsense... I would just say to him or her plainly "shout up! I am not going to listen to your nonsense talk"... then walk out.
@amyiceman (63)
• China
17 May 10
the words I always use is "You know". I usually start a argument with this words.
I think this words can get attention from around people and they may focus on me right now.
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Hi ellebo Well, whenever we argue,I cannot control myself to curse. But I just say those things out of anger and I don't definitely mean it. After some time, I also try to avoid it because it hurts also, so I go to another room to calm myself and face my partner again after, so it would not get into something deeper.
@mickeynomouse (57)
• United States
16 May 10
I usually shout curse words or just tell them the truth about their flaws because sometimes the truth hits people harder than anything else.